How to react?

@sam305 (74)
February 13, 2008 5:14am CST
I always hated this girl at school she was my best m8s m8. she always used to spread rumors about me and hated me equally. Well since i left school i thoght that would be over but shes recently been telling my boyfriends m8s things about me, wel lies about me. I just want to how how would be the best way to react to this as i thort i was out of that childish world but it seems if i retaliate ill just be back there again.
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3 responses
• India
13 Feb 08
just go straight to her and give her a heavy slap ..that should make her remember all the time whenever she tries to spread rumours about u...
@sam305 (74)
13 Feb 08
Wel i was thinking about doing that as i have done it before but it didnt seem to work last time. and also it could cause problems between her and me and my other friends. But thank you anyway xx
• India
15 Feb 08
you see i can understand your case ... really it can affect certain relationships... the other way you can do is tell about her to your friends and talk with them about this matter... they should point out something usaual and then move your act in presence of your friends...it will really help you... i think you should close this chapter immediately as it can affect your life directly or indirectly...ok...take care
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Jun 08
dont retaliate just shame her by saying I could knock your block off but then I would be putting myself down at the same level as you. get out of my sight, as I am not your friend and do not ever speak to me again. and then go about your own business.
@krissy32 (205)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Good way to go about it. :)
@sd_abot (177)
• Philippines
29 Apr 08
Sometimes we need to makes excuses but we need also to defend our selves from bad rumors. Go and talk to her in front of all people you know. It is better to that way than doing it alone.