Calling all Mums, Please can you give me some advice/Tips?

@gemini_rose (16264)
February 14, 2008 4:19am CST
I have a 2 year old daughter who has excema, she had a bad bout of it recently and this caused her to wake up during the night. I now have the excema back under control, but she is stuck in the habit now of waking up at around 11.30pm and is not going back to sleep until around 2 ish. She is then wanting to get up around 7 or 8 am. Its not been too bad for me this week as my other children are off school so I dont have to take them to school, but when they are back next week its going to be hard. My daughter is usually very happy and pleasant but because she is not sleeping properly she is becoming unhappy and it is getting hard work for her and for me!. So please if you have any advice or tips I can try to get her back into a routine of sleeping through I would be extremely grateful and willing to try them all!!!
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@aretha (2538)
• United States
14 Feb 08
i know just how you feel. my 1 year old got a nasty cold when we first moved from OK to PA and he would get up a couple times a night. i found he slept a little better in the living on the couch. well after the cold was gone he would wake up over and over again and i had to go out in the livingroom with him. it was getting so old and we were both very tired.i tried everything i could think of but he would wake right back up to go back to the livingroom. he started doing it through the day too and with other kids he never got his nap out when he was in the livingroom. after a couple weeks of this i just put a couple toys in his crib and shut the door. he would cry for a few minutes but then he would start to play and fall back to sleep. i hated it to leave him in there crying but i new there was nothing wrong with him he just needed to sleep. after about 3 days i could take him in and he would lay down and go right to sleep and stay asleep. now its been about 2 weeks and when hes tired and you ask if he wants to go to bed he will head right to his crib. good luck i really hope you find something to work for you
@aretha (2538)
• United States
14 Feb 08
oh and also i use a hydrocrotizone cream to help. it will help with the itch. good luck
@gemini_rose (16264)
15 Feb 08
I feel like I have tried everything just lately, I put her to bed later last night at 7.30, she was awake by 10.30pm until 12.30 I sat and read to her for an hour on the understanding that she went to sleep when I stopped, and she did. I thought great and got in bed quick, she was awake again at 2.30 for another hour. Then all my children were up by 7.30 so I shattered and behind in all my chores!! Im glad your little one sleeps for you though, I guess she will grow out of it eventually, but its hard work until she does.
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@aretha (2538)
• United States
15 Feb 08
you poor thing i know its so hard. have you tried maybe keeping her up later? if she normally goes to bed a 730 keep her up till 9 or 10 and maybe she will be so tired she will sleep all night without getting up. i am not sure if i would play with her or read to her because these are things that she is really going to enjoy and will look forword to getting up and doing. maybe just relax on the couch with something on tv that is boring to her. i am sorry i could not help more i know how hard it is.
@youdontsay (3497)
• United States
14 Feb 08
If she is still in a crib why not just give her a toy and let her play until she goes back to sleep. If she has no one to stimulate her, no lights on, noise, etc. She will go back to sleep. My first born used to wake up in the night and just play for a while and then go back to sleep. She didn't fuss after her diaper was changed. She'd just play awhile and then sleep. You might try keeping her up a half hour longer in the evening but using that time to do quiet things, reading stories, singing songs, etc. If she naps during the day she may not be tired enough to sleep through the night when she goes to bed early. I was blessed with babies that slept a lot! It is probably the saving grace of my parenting experience since I was ill most of the time when they were small.
• Philippines
14 Feb 08
My little sister had a excema when she was young too and I remember my mom put some cream called sudocream and it works. You should try it.
@gemini_rose (16264)
15 Feb 08
Last night I looked up creams I could try for excema and sudocrem came up, I was really surprised because I thought it was just for nappy rash. I am going to try this one because its really good for nappy rash, but also I used another one on her nappy rash called bepanthen and that was good too so I may try that too.
@chrysz (1602)
• Philippines
14 Feb 08
I think you must try our technique in making our babies sleep thoughout the night. Never turn on the light and disregard any movement your kid may do, unless she would be panting and crying. Tell her to try to sleep again if whe wakes up at 11:30 pm.
@gemini_rose (16264)
14 Feb 08
Thank you for your advice, I have tried being firm with her when she wakes up, but she just gets so upset that she ends up sobbing. Then I feel mean and try to talk nice to her, I never put the lights on or pick her up.
@gemini_rose (16264)
15 Feb 08
I have heard this product mentioned a few times now, but Im not sure if I can get it in England, but I will have a look, thanks,
• United States
14 Feb 08
You and I both! My daughter is 2 years old as well, and has very bad ezcema. She wakes up in the middle of the night and she is scratching like crazy. It also keeps her up till 3 or 4 am. And I am constantly trying to get her back into the routine where she'll sleep through and wake up happy. I usually apply 1% hydrocrotizone on her skin. It helps with the itchiness and there are also aloe moisturizers in there to keep her skin soft through out the night. And I try to keep her awake for the whole day, so by night, she'll be really really tired and falls asleep and stays asleep. So far, it's been working... hope this helps.
@gemini_rose (16264)
14 Feb 08
Thank you so much for trying to help! Do you get the hydrocortizone from the doctor or can you find it in creams you can buy from a pharmacy? Believe it or not she doesnt sleep in the day at all, she is awake all day, but she is just getting really miserable and just cries, its frustrating for us all.
• United States
14 Feb 08
No problem. You could get the hydrocortizone from the pharmacy. You coulud get the Aveeno ezcema lotion that has 1% hydrocortizone in it or you could get cortizone 10 healing cream. Because these creams are powerful, you want to use it for a week or so, and re-apply when the ezcema comes back again. Have a happy day.
@sminut13 (1783)
• Singapore
14 Feb 08
my child doesn't have ezcema so i might not be able to help much. but my sister's son does have. and from what i know, ezcema gets worse especially if the child is feeling hot or sweaty. they tend to itch then. her son had them around the neck especially. you can use the creams as suggested by others here. you can also try and keep your daughter cool. try not to be stuffy when she's asleep. also, don't let your child be too sweaty and you can try and use those moisturizing creams mentioned earlier. i hope it works. good luck.