How to pick the Perfect Mate

Philippines
February 14, 2008 9:00am CST
Selecting a mate is the most crucial decision of our lives. We spend a huge amount of time and energy trying to find that special someone. Our apetite for a relationship fuels a billion-dolla industry fror matchmaking services, lonely hearts ad and online dating. yet we're often not satisfied. Indeed the roads to love are so varied and random. So the question is how do we decide on a particular mate? What should be the guidelines in choosing? And how do you know if he or she is the ONE??
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makouvex
@makouvex (5)
• Philippines
14 Feb 08
Well, you don't really know if he/she will be the right one coz from one hour, you might feel like he/she is the perfect one then the next hour, you might change your mind. If someone is in a hurry to find the one, then find the right friend first coz who knows he/she might be the one you're looking for or he/she could help you find the one. At least you know the person well and he/she knows how to make your day right.
wormzydaizy
@wormzydaizy (202)
• Philippines
15 Feb 08
very well said makouvex. thanks for the response!
kykidd
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
14 Feb 08
It's hard to find the perfect mate. Some of us go years and years without finding the right one. We must look for someone who is more than just a friend and then I think we will realize this is the one.
wormzydaizy
@wormzydaizy (202)
• Philippines
18 Feb 08
yes kykidd i agree with you! sometimes it really takes years or even a lifetime to look for that certain person. Well i guess you are right, finding a friend might help, who knows what might happen right? after all great surprises comes in small and simple packages.