Love life Help

February 15, 2008 5:59am CST
Morning Please i need some love life help, even at my age. I've met this guy at AA he seems very nice and keen to help me, last night he even picked me up to go to the meeting. I'm finding him a very interesting guy. But although he's picking me up and helping me, do you think he might like me or do you think he's just being friendly. I don't want to mess it up by presuming the wrong thing. Please can anyone help me with advice??
4 responses
@kiran1978 (4134)
• Australia
15 Feb 08
It is hard to tell, I have not met this guy. I think your gut instincts are usually right, if you feel that he genuinly likes you, then you are most likely right. It does seem like he definately does like you though as he is going out of his way to pick you up for meetings. Maybe if you are still unsure you could bite the bullet and invite him for a coffee or something? See if he takes you up on offer, then you can get to know him better. Things will work out if you two have chemistry, all the best.
15 Feb 08
Thanks for your advice. The problem i have is usually messing things up by being impatient. That's why i thought i would ask mylot people what they thought, hoping that i can be a little more patient. 3 weeks ago i was at my lowest i've ever been and now i'm almost on cloud nine, would be icing on the cake evetually if it turns out to be more than friendship.
18 Feb 08
One more thing about this guy, last night i did not go to the my usual meeting and later last night he text me to say he missed me last night. Which was would you take that?
3 Mar 08
Just thought i would up date you on my love life. I did get my man he felt the same way i did. So we are taking things slowly to see how we get on. Thanks for all your support
@dorcam (320)
• Malta
19 Feb 08
I think you should be patient and wait, because if he likes you, he will make the first move.
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
16 Feb 08
I think there's nothing for you to do but wait and give it time. If he likes you it's up to him to make a move.
@etavasi (749)
• Malaysia
18 Feb 08
Yeah, the question that you should ask your self is, do you really like this guy ? If you say yes, go and take an action before someone get that guy. You can make some test by asking that guy to go out, but dont forget to include this in your request question example, "..but i scare maybe someone will feel jealous...", then you will know it already. But if dont like this man, just be a good friends, dont forget to help your friends too.