I'm kinda bummed......

United States
February 18, 2008 1:18am CST
When I started here at "mylot", I hadn't a clue what I was doing. I think I know how things work now. Today I felt kinda bummed out being here. Not much going on, no one commenting on my discussions,(probably because they are STOOPID)! I accidentally did one dicussion twice. Anybody else ever feel like crawling under a rock ever? I do..... P.S. Don't get me wrong, I still Love all my friends!
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@happymommy3 (2012)
• United States
20 Feb 08
Well I'm sure you're feeling a little better now after all these responses! I'm glad you're getting the hang of how things work. You will have more days like that but we've all been there too so you're not alone. Keep up the great work and we love you too!
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• United States
20 Feb 08
Yes, of course I feel better, How can I not?! Hopefully I won't have too many bad day's, but if I do, I'll just take me a lil'-break..... Thanks so much, Happymommy3, have a nice day, today. :o)
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@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
20 Feb 08
I think a lot of weather a lot of people reply or only a few sometimes doesn't even depend on how good the discussion is!! I think sometimes its a lot to do with timing!! Like i find early morning here, and JUST as i'm getting ready to go to bed its much more lively here! I guess through the day a lot of people are busy with their lives, going to work, house work, busy with their kids! hehe. Somedays i dont make it here either, so i understand.
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• United States
20 Feb 08
Ya, plus everyone is in a different time zone too. With people from all over the world, you never know what to expect. Thanks for understanding, Sissygrl....... :o)
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
19 Feb 08
It takes time to get used to things here and most people post twice. Also the way to get someone to respond on your discussions is to get a many friends as possible. The reason is that at least one or two will answer your posts. The secret is to try to get the friends on your main interests since this is usually where you directing your posts. And sometimes the discussions are not as lively and exciting on some days as they are on others. As they say, this too shall pass.
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• United States
19 Feb 08
Well thank-you suspenseful! Like I said before, I'm just kickin back now, responding more to other's, so I get some more ideas on stuff,and just paying attention to how things work, you know? I'm starting to get more friends too, including you now,thanks for being my friend. Have a really nice day! Your friend, Marilyn :o)
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@tess1960 (2385)
• United States
19 Feb 08
I have felt the same way many times over. I find a short break away from mylot helps me and also letting friends know that I have unanswered discussions usually gets them answered. It just takes a few to get the ball rolling and if noone else responds after a month I give that friend the best response mark and move on.
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• United States
19 Feb 08
Yah, you've been here for a while, so I'm sure that you have felt like that. Kinda sucks, but I'm over it, it feels good to have people respond to a discussion, but now I'm thinkin I'm just gonna respond for a while. Thanks so much for taking the time for me! Have an awwsome day.... :o)
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
20 Feb 08
I'm glad you are enjoying your myLot experience, marilynlynn, and, no, I have never felt like crawling under a rock, lol. None of us has a good day everyday. We just have to take them as they come and make the best of them all.
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• United States
20 Feb 08
Yes, I am enjoying "Mylot"! I guess everyone doesn't feel like crawling under a rock, but I certainly felt like it, the other day, when I posted this discussion. It's just a figure of speech, but man, I really felt embaressed and not so much like I was fitting in with the mylot crowd. I'm feeling alot better, thanks to all of you....... Thank you sooooo much worldwise1. :o) Marilyn
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• Romania
19 Feb 08
??Ok.I am like you, because i don't have a clue of what am i doing here either.yes.I do feel wrong here.
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• United States
19 Feb 08
Well, we're like babes in here, but we can make it just fine. We just have to go with the flow, till we figure things out. Are you willing? I am. :o) Thanks for your comment.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
18 Feb 08
Be my friend.Will you? I will be dutifully responding to all your discussions especially that hilarious one 'the three old women'. lol
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@balasri (26537)
• India
19 Feb 08
Fine.It is a deal.
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• United States
18 Feb 08
I'll be your friend for sure, but you don't have to respond to my stuff, that's okay. I feel tons better today. I Love "Mylot", and the conversations that I encounter. I'll go add you, then go check your stuff out! Marilyn :o)
• United States
19 Feb 08
Awwwwww, I got a good friend..... :o)
@anniepa (27955)
• United States
6 Mar 08
Stop being so hard on yourself! I'm sure your discussions aren't stupid, anyway stupid is a very subjective term especially here on myLot. One person's "stupid" is another's brilliant, stimulating discussion and vice versa so don't give that a thought. I've never been able to figure out why some of my discussion which I had very high hopes for get few or no responses while those I just post for the heck of it get dozens. As for posting a discussion twice accidentally - don't worry, been there, done that - sh1t happens! Annie
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• United States
3 Apr 08
Hi Anniepa....... Thanks for your thoughts on this, you made me feel better. :o) I have figured out, that I'm not the only one that feels this way from time to time. Thanks again, and have avery nice day! Marilyn
@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Feb 08
There are days when I am so excited to be on the lot and then there are days when I need a brake I think that you need to decide if you just need a brake take a day off from the lot to refresh yourself and get new ideas so that whe you come back the next day you at least have a discussion about what you did on your day off of mylot and from there you'll see that the day off gave you time to think of a great many discussions. take care ..
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• United States
19 Feb 08
You're so right!!!! I did take some time off last night, and I feel much better. Don't know if I got any good discussions yet, but I'm still thinkin! Thanks for your thoughts. Peace. :o)
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@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
18 Feb 08
I have also posted a discussion twice and funny enough both get responses but I don't like that Idea. That is a common mistake. I also sometimes worry when my discusions don't get responses and ask myself it they were just dumb. But people here sometimes respond to even the dumbest discussion. Maybe the time you are online posting discussions most of mylotters are offline. it also depends on the time.
• United States
18 Feb 08
Hello Kwenge, You know your probably right, about the "Mylotters" being offline, when I have a discussion. Plus I'm still really new at this, and don't have a lot of friends. I was thinkin bout me posting my discussion twice, I think somehow it wasn't me that did it, I think it just happened. Thanks for your thoughts on this topic. :o)
@mrsjbelle (1640)
• United States
19 Feb 08
Welcome & we all have days like that. At least I do. But honestly MyLot is awesome and when you log in and see your earnings going up its such a nice feeling!
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• United States
19 Feb 08
Yah, I for sure feel welcome now. I can't believe how many sweet people are here, for the most part, I thought that all the nice people vanished. By golly, I was wrong! Guess I'm not the only nice person in the world. Thank you so much mrsjbelle, your nice too.Yes the $$$ is good too. Marilyn :o)
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@JJ4Ever (4693)
• United States
18 Mar 08
I've definitely been there and done that! I've embarrassed myself so many times. Priceless. I hate it, though! I'm definitely going to have to check out all of your discussions only for the fact that you think they might be stupid! (LOL) I'm sure they aren't, though. Sometimes it takes time for responses to build up on your discussions. Some people don't comment on responses, which is irritating. I always comment on responses left for my discussions. I figure people took the time to respond to my discussion, so I might as well take the time to comment on their response. You can really get into some good and deep conversations that way! I can definitely relate to everything you addressed in this discussion, though. Keep up the good work and I wish you the best of luck here on myLot, my friend!
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• United States
3 Apr 08
Awwwwww, Thanks JJ4Ever! You sound so sweet. I've had so many responses on this subject already, that I feel better and not so alone on this. Sorry it took me so long to respond to this, but my computer has been down. I'll go check out some of your discussions. Have a good day! Marilyn :o)
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• United States
7 Apr 08
Yes, for sure we are friends! Hopefully forever...... :o)
@JJ4Ever (4693)
• United States
3 Apr 08
I'm glad all of your myLot friends were able to prove otherwise...that your discussions aren't "STOOPID" as you so beautifully put it! (LOL) I'm glad you got a lot of responses to this one also. Thanks for your comment and keep up the good work, my friend. Thanks for the compliment too! I try to be a nice person, especially to my wonderful and most amazing friends here on myLot. We are friends on here, right?...(LOL) Just making sure!!
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@sminut13 (1783)
• Singapore
18 Feb 08
don't worry too much. there are many whose discussions don't get responded too. it's most likely because people are not interested in them. only some will respond. it's the same with me too. thus, i don't really post too many discussions. so long as you get people who are interested in your topics, then that should be ok rather than having people who just want to earn money and post responses of little value. i too have similar problems so you're not the only one. take care
• United States
18 Feb 08
Awwwww, thank you. I feel better now, I got some shut-eye, that probably,is what most of my problem was. I started out wanting to make some $$$$$$, but I have totally changed my attitude. I like it in here, for all the conversations. Maybe I should just comment on others for a while. I will go right now and check out your topics. :o)
@sminut13 (1783)
• Singapore
18 Feb 08
i'm glad that i could be of help. i know how down one can feel at these times. enjoy yourself.
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• United States
18 Feb 08
oh thank you sminut13! Such a nice person you are. :o)
• United States
7 Mar 08
don't be bummed, love. recently i haven't been intrested in posting and responding, maybe because someone offended me yesterday. i don't know. so don't worry, no one really response to my discussion either. so its all good! hope your doing okay. =]
• United States
3 Apr 08
Hi there HollywoodBarbi.... Nice to see you. Thanks for the comment, and I hope that you're doing okay too. I've been good, just workin alot, not much time to get on the puter, but I still try. Have a great day! Your friend, Marilyn :o)
• Canada
6 Mar 08
Some days I get bored on here, other days there's stuff going on and I have a fine time on here. The MyLot digest subscription I have helps a lot, and I'm better able to find interesting discussions because of it. Do you subscribe to the digest?
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• United States
3 Apr 08
Hi Danishcandian........ No, I've never even heard of it, actually. How do I go about getting a subscription? Thanks for commenting, have a great day! :o) Marilyn
@nangel78 (1454)
• United States
18 Feb 08
Hang in there. You are not alone in this. I have come up with discussions that do not get comments or responses. I just go on. It is not worth worrying about. Some people are interested in, others they are not. It is just one of those things sometimes.
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• United States
18 Feb 08
I'm hanging in there, guess I just had an (off) day yesterday. Makes me feel good when people like you, reassure me. Thanks a bunch..... :o)
@catjane (1036)
• United States
18 Feb 08
I've posted alot of discussions that no one has responded to. I always felt that maybe the discussions were not dumb enough LOL. So now I only discuss what other people post.
• United States
18 Feb 08
Ha! Ha! That's pretty funny. You know, that is probably a good idea, but what about YOU! Your thoughts and ideas are important too. :o)Thanks!
• Canada
19 Feb 08
I guess it is true missery loves company because I feel much better now knowing someone else feels the same way sometimes. I actually don't mind it so much when I post a discussion that isn't interesting to anyone but it does hurt when I post something more personal or from the heart and no one answers. It actually has not happened often but it has and I still feel the sting! I will get over it and so will you! Keep your chin up and keep writing for the fun and love of it. Blessings!
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• United States
19 Feb 08
Awwwww, what a sweet heart you are. Guess I felt the sting. That's okay, and I'm okay. I'm gonna keep my chin up and just go with the flow, just like everyone else, including you. Thanks for you thoughts! Marilyn :o)
• United States
18 Feb 08
No question is a stupid question. So, don't feel that way. I will have to take a look at some more of your questions and try to give you an answer. Have a great day.
• United States
18 Feb 08
Hi Lola...... Haven't talked with you for a bit. Thanks for responding. Just had a bad day yesterday, that's all. I feel much better today, and I'll be better in the future. I promise. :o)
• United States
18 Feb 08
yea I kinda feel that way right now too, just barely figuring this place out. Enjoying it though, first reply so we will see how it goes. I really do feel like crawling under a rock or going to a remote island right now just to be away from it all. Well anyway good to meet you.
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• United States
18 Feb 08
Nice to meet you duvessa........ Yah, a remote Island sounds good, even if we don't crawl under a rock. :o) I'm still finding my way around, so let's keep on, keepin on, we're okie-dokie! ;o) Marilyn