What do men really prefer?

United States
February 18, 2008 6:21pm CST
Strong Independent Women or noncombative, nonagressive, . . . OKAY!!! weak, dumb and naive Women. I have spoken with my male friends who say they "secretly" prefer docile females that are easily manipulated AND CONTROLLED (their words)because . . . it just makes life easier for them . . . TO DO WHATEVER THEY WANT TO DO!!!
3 responses
• United States
29 Feb 08
I, being male, much prefer a woman with thoughts of her own that may or may not agree with my own. I do not want a leech or a slave I want a contributor in a relationship someone who is willing to put something into the relationship instead of just sit there and do as I say (If I wanted that I could buy a manikin).
• United States
9 Dec 08
i think the kind of men that want weak women are insecure them selfs.i know all men are not like this but for the ones that are it is really sad for them and the women they are with. i think it is the womens faught to if she lets this happen to herself she needs to stand and be strong. you can be soft but strong at the same time
@Bluepatch (2476)
• Trinidad And Tobago
19 Feb 08
It depends on you. I like women who are intelligent, discerning, independant. Those I can discuss and relate any aspect of my life with and get a positive response. If you want a follower then you'll soon be bored because there's no intellectual challenge. You need stimilus, not docility. Make it with a woman who challenges you and you know you're a real man.
• United States
22 Feb 08
Hi Bluepatch - I do believe you are one of the very few exceptions to the very large majority rule. I must say it is great to know that there are still some like you out there. I am a very strong, intellectual female with a very inquisitive personality . . . not overly agressive because thats not attractive, not stubborn because women are designed to submit PROPERLY to the right man . . . not pushy because you have to give a man room to lead . . . I love a man that can teach me something on a level that pushes us both . . . if you can understand what I mean . . . it should be work that rewards us both . . . most men confuse manipulation with manhood and there is a big difference . . . most women are so blinded by the relationship that they cant tell which one they are being subjected to. I like your post. Thanks
@nomoso (650)
• India
20 Feb 08
s i do feel the same thing.... but i would like hard girls too but she should understand my views and thoughts too...then their is no problem for me..