Should i just finish it?
By sam305
@sam305 (74)
February 20, 2008 10:00am CST
I have recnetly have been trying to decide whether to stay with my boyfriend. I had an arguement with one of his brothers girlfriends because she sed i sed sumthing when i didnt. Then his family spread rumors about me that werent very nice and got back to my mum and caused alot of upset. And now i have had an arguement with his other brothers girlfriend who lives at his house because shes a total b***h, i can't be bothered with it anymre and i dnt feel i can go down his house, even though i like his mum. Got any ideas how i can sort this out and get them to butt out of our relationship, cus it's really upsetting me.
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4 responses
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
20 Feb 08
Sounds like a great mess of a family. You can try to talk to the ones you feel deserve a conversation with you. Then you can have nothing to do with the rest of them, but it's only going to be difficult in the future, holidays, etc. Do you think it's worth it?
@sam305 (74)
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20 Feb 08
I don't know if it is. I do love him, but i don't want to put up with it anymre and hes asked them to leave me alone but they just won't. I don't want it to have to come to the point where he has to chose between us. And i don't want my daughter to miss out on their other family but i refuse to let them turn my daughter against me.
@Swaana (1205)
• India
20 Feb 08
Have an one to one talk with his mum as you say you like her and also with your boy friend. If possible you both could live alone away from his brothers, but if his mom or he didnot agree then reconsider, it is not worth staying with people who constantly abuse you.
@sam305 (74)
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20 Feb 08
Thats not possible really as him and his brother have brought a house together, for the four of us to live in. But i would rather go back to my mum then live with his brother n girlfriend. I don't want to go to his mum as i would feel as though im telling tales like people used to when we were in school.
@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
21 Feb 08
id say bounce cause theres neither the time or place for non sense ever ...if you decided to get married since you love him soo much then expect this bickering to never end and accept it into your life , or you can get your place and have your own door to close away from this non sense , and let your man deal with his family
