Should i try and find them?

@sam305 (74)
February 20, 2008 10:24am CST
When my dad left my mum he got his new girlfriend pregnant, twice. My brother was born and then my sister. I always had an extra special bond with my little brother compared to all my other brothers and sisters. However, i fell out with my dad when he was three i was 11, and then his girlfriend glassed my mum so we lost contact. Now i'm older im just wondering if i should try and find them, it's been 8 years so he will be 11. I just remember how much i loved having older brothers and sisters, and considering my dad has fell out with all his children except them they arent going to get the chance to experience it. I just want to let them know that they have a whole other family out there and want to bond with my brother all over again. Should i find them or should i wait until they are old enough to make their own decisions. And wait for them to find us.
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@sophialin (2677)
• China
21 Feb 08
i think u should find them through internet or other channels. father is father, brother is brother. nomatter how long time goes, it's the fact u can't change. just find them and let them know that u are their family.
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@Swaana (1205)
• India
20 Feb 08
He might not even remember your face, but if you have loved him so much he will definitely remember your love. If you are so concerned why dont you try and find them out and start a whole new relationship. This will give you also a full filling feeling.
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