Ever loved a bad boy??

Indonesia
February 21, 2008 1:44am CST
Imagine if you meet someone, then you feel that he is the one. You can talk with him for hours, and you know that he is your perfect match. But you know that he is a kind of that bad boy, with a lot of bad past, even your family don't like him. Will you continue your relationship or leave him because of his past??
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@BAHAMA (4)
22 Feb 08
yes, this has happened to me in the past and for some reason it was exciting to me...like to be with someone who had so much drama and machoism...now i realize it is not macho but at the time it did not bother me...what you do realize though is the character deep within of what that person is made of and that basically they do not care about anyone but themselves...they have no regard to society norms which is really a serious problem..it turns some people on though...bonnie and clyde syndrome i guess
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• India
22 Feb 08
i try to change him.where he change his habites i continue my relationship or i ferget him.
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@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
25 Mar 08
I don't think there is a defination of the word bad boy! Falling for a bad boy unless he is a murderer to me is exciting. i his past and his childhood to stay where it belongs in the PAST.
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
25 Mar 08
I always fall with a bad boy but one thing stands out they cant control me hehehe
@fengxg22 (51)
• China
22 Feb 08
I think you onle be care of his current.A lot of people have bad past like Mr Winston ChurChill.
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
7 Sep 11
Hi, thefabulous. Welcome to myLot! Yes, I have, once dated, a guy that called himself, a bad boy. He was more like a wannabe thug, so to speak. My aunt did not approve of him and, his style of clothing and his hair cut. But, he was not really a thug, he just carried himself in this way. Ideally, he was a normal guy that lived in the hood, that's all. I still continued to love him. I did not break up with him because of this. Later down the line, his deceit and lies was what made me to depart from him though.
• Canada
23 Feb 08
Bad boys are not my type. I am married to a wonerful man, with a good career, intellegence, and he treats me right. My sister dated a couple of bad boys, but I was never interested in that type.
@cokyjazz (429)
• Australia
22 Feb 08
I'm another person who fell for a bad boy.At first i was drawn to him because he was bad in almost every way but treated me like a princess and i felt safe because he wouldnt let anyone get away with upsetting or hurting me.Things changed when he became bad all over,to me as well.While some bad boys may not go that way,it's best to beware.I do admit that in the early days,it was a very exciting relationship.
@JanMags (724)
• Philippines
21 Feb 08
i know that things don't always work out fine in situations like this but my husband was a bad boy but i still married him. sure there are a lot of trials here and there but we are happy. i can't really say though how things will turn out for others. i guess people just have to take risks to see what might happen
@kbourgerie (8780)
• United States
21 Feb 08
Yes, I'm guilty. I don't know why I've always been drawn to the "bad boy" type, except that it is more exciting to have someone that is different from the norm. I'm not sure I could ever be with a white collar kind of guy. It just seems to mundane for my tastes. Not to say I have made the best of choices in my men, but I've had alot of fun along the way.
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
21 Feb 08
Yeah I loved a bad boy before and he is really nasty but it came to a poin that he hurts me then I let go of it and the first time I ever made a bad boy cry yooo hooo..
@kimian55 (132)
• Alamogordo, New York
25 Mar 08
Did you know why bad boys are so attratie cause of the challenge,strength and in your case this guy must be fragile. Perfect. Any woman would fall for it speciall if your still young. According to what you said.. He must be tough outside nd soft inside. I am to was a bad boy and relationships never lasted adn about this guys past.. Its the one give him the upper hand of being fragile and neeeding comfort stuff he can also say"I'll change for you" which really works according to my experience=)
• United States
23 Feb 08
If this is the boy that I fell in love with. I'd discuss mu concerns with him. If he is sincere about the relationship he has with me, I wouldn't leave because of his past.
• United States
25 Mar 08
I have to admitt....I'm a sucker for a " bad boy"! ;)
• Kenya
21 Feb 08
Girls have tendency of liking 'bad boys'. I have seen from where I grew up that the 'Baddest' or a 'crook' always took the Cutest girl in town. Sometimes i think the danger and thrill which goes with it excites the girls. Also security is another issue. I'd advice you to trend carefully when it comes to 'bad' boys. Remember you are not his first and this can't guarantee you as being the last. I've also seen girls who get together with crooks later on in life having problems since their partner has either been killed or locked up in jail.