what will you do?

@dane20 (45)
Philippines
February 21, 2008 7:50am CST
what will you do if one day you talk with somebody on the phone, a guy perhaps. you find out the you liked him and then the next day you meet him and finally became your boyfriend, days passed you became so close to each other and you pressume also that he feels the same way to, but when you ask him if he loves you he just tell you the i dont know, how will you react to that
2 people like this
3 responses
• United States
21 Feb 08
A lot of times people guard that emotion like it is their dying breath. You don't know what they have been through in their past and maybe they are very very cautious with their heart because someone before you ripped it out of his chest and tore it into little pieces and it just hasn't healed yet. I never say I love you first. I will say, I think I am falling in love with you to kind of feel out the situation but I will never blindly tell someone I love them if I don't know how they feel about me first.
1 person likes this
@dane20 (45)
• Philippines
21 Feb 08
your right, he had a 3 years relationship, and he just find out that the girl is having another relationship with a guy, and she is pregnant with that guy.
1 person likes this
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
21 Feb 08
Well, I will accept the truth. As the saying goes "if you easily get something, it will also be that easy to lose". So I will not expect the relationship to really last for good. But rather, I will just enjoy while it is still there.
1 person likes this
@dane20 (45)
• Philippines
21 Feb 08
hi im joy, whats your name? now i realize it because of that quote, until now i still cant get over him, i still do like him but the feeling of love is not present anymore
1 person likes this
• India
22 Feb 08
First of all I don't think taht I would be in such kind of relationship where without knowing each other two people are going into a relationship. but somehow if I did and I find myself in such situation where after spending so many days together the person is still not sure about whether he loves me or not I would not force him. I would suggest him that we should be apart of sometime to reflect on what we want and what we don't. I would ask that person to let me know the way he feels after certain time. As it is said that distance makes hearts grow fonder and if I am worth enough then that person would come back to me. Otherwise it is no point in being mad about someone who doesn't even loves you. it's better to go right way in the first instance only rather than to get heartbroken later. I won't get angry, though it would upset me alot but that's the way life is.