am i doinq too much ?

Ummm maybe its time to just let him be. Give him space and time to answer your emails, calls or whatever. If he really cares about you he will contact you. And if he doesn't then it wasn't meant to be! IMO.

It is a good idea to try to get him to tell you what's wrong. Maybe before the breakups were meaningless, but you guys have gotten older in the past year and a 1/2. Maybe you can use this as a lesson learned type of thing. Just because you get mad at your boyfriend doesn't mean you break up. You talk it through. if you and him are too angry to talk and feel something might be said that shouldn't be said, then it's ok to say "lets cool down and talk about this later" and you both go cool off. That way it's not a break up, just a little chillout session and you both know you're still together. Maybe he's getting tired of the whole "i wanna break up w/ you" scene. That's a sign of maturity. He may still care about you, but he doesn't want to keep on getting hurt. it may mean nothing to you, but those breakups may mean alot to him. Or it could just be something else. Try talking him face to face and try to figure out what happened. At least talk about what went wrong. If he doesn't want to talk anymore and keeps trying to avoid you, then try to move on the best you can and learn from your mistakes. Don't blame yourself for the breakup, i'm not saying that, just know that mature relationship don't break up every time someone gets mad. they stay together and work it out. Yes, that's what teenagers do. they break up and get back together all the time. And when someone finally gets tired of that scene it just means they're growing up. I don't know if i'm explaining it well or not. I wish you luck. real breakups suck. I believe we all have someone we're suppose to end up w/, and maybe your guy wasn't the one.

My dear, forget him and get on with your life. Seriously, don't you think the world is full of mature men who won't go silent on you just because you got mad once? Get on with your life and find such a mature man. Cheers

It is hard to say what is in his head. Maybe he just got tired of the fighting or maybe he is also playing some head games. I think you have done your part in trying to work your way back to him. As hard as it may be, I think you should get out and about with your friends. I am betting that once he feels that you have moved on and gotten over him....he'll be calling you. Even tho you may feel desperate...don't act it. take your time. If he doesn't come back then it may be that you will have to actually move on. it is hard, i know. good luck.

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh teenage love.. I wouldn't EVER do it again. I am much older and much wiser than I was at that age. So from experience, I can tell you, I think it is time you moved on. From what you have said above, I think he already has. Yes know it's tough, it hurts and it SUCKS!! But, it is time for you to do other things. Don't call him, don't "stalk" (I am joking when I used that word.. don't take offense) on myspace, delete him from your friends so you are not tempted to see who he talks to or about what. There are MUCH better guys out there who will love you for who you are. Really.. I swear!! Sometimes.. they are not even anyone you already know. I met my husband 7 months before we married. It is now almost 17 years later. He is the best MAN ever! In high school, you are still dealing with BOYS whos only goal in life is to get laid as many times by as many girls as they can. (no it HASN'T changes since I was there) So get up, get showered, dressed and go to the mall with your girlfriends shop and have fun and do other things the next few weeks to keep you occupied. This isn't a healthy relationship, and IMO I think it is time you moved on

Dont take this the wrong way but it sounds like just a silly fight. I think maybe his feelings must of gotten hurt pretty badly... I'd just keep trying a little while longer, but if it doesnt work dont press the issue. I know its hard though. Or you can always play the hard to get type deal. Really I guess those are the only things you can do besides saying sorry. OR buy him one of his favorite things and a card.

i think u did alot now. now stop this thing and try to avoid him when ever he meets u or calls u and if he also loves u with heart he will surely come to u.