What Is A Good Reason To Marry Someone?

United States
October 30, 2006 2:24pm CST
Is Love Always Enough!!
9 responses
• United States
30 Oct 06
is there ever a good reason to get married i havent found one yet
• United States
30 Oct 06
Your Really Right. I can understand what you mean
@vipul20044 (5794)
• India
30 Oct 06
If the two of your personalities is the type to be satisfied and happy with liking each other and being compatible and if you have fun being with each other, then it"could possibly" work. But, the very best way to answer that question is to pose a question to both of you!!!!My question to you both is:"If you do end up getting married and are still compatible and having fun together," how will each of you react if and when another person comes along (possibly a coworker, neighbor, etc.),,,, who actually excites you and you have a burning desire to be with that person, and you can't help yourself but to put yourself in a position to be with that person whenever you can?????"Would"both" of you still be happy and complacent to stay in your relationship??? Or would you want to take the risk of being with that person more and seeing what develops?By each of you answering that question, you will have your answer.
• United States
30 Oct 06
That is A Exc Question I just got divorced last year it was because my ex could'nt stop cheating & wanted to beat me. He was also a check writing criminal.And Immature I loved him so much when we first met it was nothing like that!! Things went down hill when I got pregnant with my daughter and he did'nt do anything for us both. So after my divorce I questioned myself would I ever remarry if I felt I really loved someone? But then I said what if the person does'nt love me like I love them so you have to be very smart about it just like you said. Great response!! Thank You
@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
30 Oct 06
The Question of Love - Is love enough?  Love is necessary, but it may very well not be enough.  Sad, but true.
Love is essential, but I'm not sure it's enough. I've married twice for love and both times were a mistake. You have to be sure that the person loves you as much as you love them. You also have to be sure the person will treat you well -- be sure that they aren't an abuser. Maturity is also a factor. If you both are still in the process of growing and maturing emotionally there is a very good chance that you might grow apart. In answer to your question -- NO, love is not always enough.
• United States
30 Oct 06
I feel love is not enough either?
@SRANKIN (282)
• United States
30 Oct 06
Love is the only thing you need for marriage.
• United States
30 Oct 06
love, friendship, stability, protection, money, support.;..lots of things come into playt
• Indonesia
30 Oct 06
love is basic requirement. Because we must meet her/him everyday with her/his caracter.
@clownfish (3272)
• United States
30 Oct 06
I don't know why I'd marry someone I didn't love.
• Netherlands
30 Oct 06
Love must be enough.
@burgoonster (3757)
• Canada
30 Oct 06
I Would Say You Must Feel A Connetion With Someone For Them Not Just Love