Falling in love with Josh!
By cortjo73
@cortjo73 (6498)
United States
February 25, 2008 9:27am CST
I know, he is a gay man. I am not falling in love with him in that way. I just like him as one of my favorites on Big Brother. Here is why. I hate, hate, hate the C word and the many, many, many, too many times he tossed it at Amanda. That word can get you either maimed or killed. And, I think that there should be a law that if a man says that word to a woman, he should get some kind of punishment. If she doesn't either injure him, or kill him, he has come away from it lucky. That word can invite violence. So, I think that any man who uses that word toward a woman should get punished in some way!
Anyway, despite that word, the man is a nurturer. I watched the BBADs that were clogging up my Tivo this weekend and on 3 occasions, Josh showed a very strong nurturing side. The first time I saw it was on the episode of BBAD when the HGs filled the hot tub with bubbles and got in and Chelsia and Natalie took off some clothes...or in Natalie's case, got completely naked. At one point she went over to Josh for cover and he shielded her and covered up her butt with his hand (I hope he scrubbed it later).
Then, Thursday night/Friday Morning James and Chelsia got rip roaring drunk and both of them passed out. Chelsia passed out first in the HOH bed and then James passed out in the spa room on the massage table. Josh went and checked on Chelsia and straightened the blankets up and covered her. Then he went and did the same for James, taking a blanket and covering him up, while checking on him.
I just melted. Everyone else is a little self-centered. They were concerned about James but, Josh really sort of got hands-on.
So, he may say disrespectful things and fight dirty but, deep down, the guy has a good heart and is so nurturing.
What do you all think?
2 responses
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
25 Feb 08
I really like Josh. l like the way he says what he is thinking. I think he will go far in the game as he seems to be someone who would make a loyal friend. I think that the things he spewed in the heat of the moment were pretty much accurate. It seems to me that the women in the house like him too and shamelessly flaunt themselves in front of him like they could get him to switch teams!
@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
25 Feb 08
Oh! Don't get me wrong! I agree! He only spoke the truth to Amanda! He just could have refrained from using the C word! LOL! But, I also like him for being the type of person to speak his mind. I also like that about Chelsia.
I haven't noticed that girls shamelessly flaunting themselves around him like they can make him switch teams. I will have to keep an eye out for that. I don't agree that they should do that around him. But, since he is the hottest guy in the house, IMO, I can understand it! LOL! I wouldn't do it, but I get it! LOL!

@quiltedblessings (1066)
• United States
25 Feb 08
My husband and I were talking about this just last night. Of everyone in the house, while Josh has a temper, he is also a good guy. He does go out of his way to make sure people are taken care of. Yea, don't piss him off, but at the same time, you know he has your back.
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@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
25 Feb 08
I agree! There are plenty of people in the world that have a difficult time maintaining composure when they fight. They say things they shouldn't in the heat of the moment. I have a personal policy of never saying anything that I will want to take back as soon as it leaves my mouth of the next day. But, that doesn't make a person bad or good. It just means they should learn how to fight clean. Josh is one of those people. But, he is also so very caring and that comes across loud and clear to me!



