Who would you choose?
By ritchel
@ritchel (842)
Philippines
4 responses
@Linda4ualways (2282)
• United States
26 Feb 08
That sounds like a real problem you have on your hands; one I wouldn't want to be in. I mean, I don't know what to tell ya! Maybe you should just let both of them go, give yourself some alone time and hope that someone will come along where feeling will be mutual. That situation there is not a good. But let me ask you, is there no possible way for you to get to love the man who loves you?
@ritchel (842)
• Philippines
27 Feb 08
Jahhh...it's really hard. I am not inlove with the man who loves me. Actually, he is a mystery guy. We've been chatting for a couple of years already I was thinking he was the one that i love but I was wrong because they are two different persons. I was broken hearted when I find it out and he was also broken hearted after finding out that I am inlove with the other guy and thinking he is the guy. We are not at peace for the moment but I am still making it up to him even as friends.
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
26 Feb 08
..well.. I wouldn't choose either, because one doesn't love you.. but the other, you don't love.. I think you should be friends with both, especially as the best long term relationships are those which develop over time from a friendship.. If it was me, I wouldn't be waiting however..
..good luck!
@ritchel (842)
• Philippines
27 Feb 08
We are not friends with the one who loves me after he find out that I am inlove with a certain guy but who doesn't love me. I also don't want to lose him that's why Im making it up to him even as a friend. The guy whom I am inlove with we are already friends but he seems not to really look at my way. I really don't know if the feelings is mutual. I will just have to see after I finish my studies because he is 4 years older than me and he is already working and has an established career. I hope he is also waiting for the right moment or he was just waiting for me to graduate.
@jayalaksmi (1039)
• India
13 May 08
If you have any small feeling for the one who loves you then you can love him because it is sure that he will surely love you and care you. Or you can also for the last time make the one know how much you love him and show your feelings to him.
@Mayuko (1268)
• United States
29 Jan 12
If I were in your situation, I'd wait things out. There is no need to rush making a decision. Maybe eventually the man who you love will develop feelings for you, or you will fall for the guy who loves you.
Or maybe even there will be a third man who cares for you and vice versa.
Ultimately, this is a decision you have to make on your own. There is not enough information for others to give you proper advice on the situation.
