do you stand the interference of your parents in your life?
By pankajlot
@pankajlot (252)
India
February 27, 2008 4:29am CST
When we grow up we tend to disobey are parents we severally take their advices but let me ask you ,is there somebody who still stands his parents interference in their life!!
3 responses
@amitavroy (4819)
• India
27 Feb 08
what I think is that this is a very natural phenomena and because as the group be tend to know more about the world and there may be time when our parents are thinking from another point of view and we are thinking from another point of view and in such cases there would be a clash in their decisions with powers. This is a testing time for everybody and I think we should handle this time very carefully. We should make our parents realise why we think that we are right with our point of view. It is always better to discuss with them because one thing is for sure they will not tell us anything which can be harmful to us. Sometimes it may be the case that they are more protective but again that is not wrong. We have to make them realise and once we can do this than there is no problem in these matters. We should never disobeyed their orders with a negative frame of mind because it will always bring trouble to life we should not forget their importance in on life. They are like the roots of a tree. The more strong day and the more bonded they are with us a better balance we will have in our life and also in their life.
@amitavroy (4819)
• India
27 Feb 08
well let me tell you, that you have also put up a very nice question here for discussion. there are lot of discussions put up daily. some are good and some not so good. but this was soemthing which i liked to respond.
keep posting such nice questions.
@pankajlot (252)
• India
27 Feb 08
i loved the way you have responded you seem to be very emotional on this topic and why not one should be cos our parents spend their whole life for us yet they are happy in whatever we do! thank you very much for your reply
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@pankajlot (252)
• India
28 Feb 08
It will be my pleasure to keep coming up with such discussions! thank you very much!!
@ShardAerliss (1488)
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27 Feb 08
I moved 300 miles from my mother to avoid her meddling, pestering and interfering. My mother, bless her, believes in having a large nuclear family; everyone living close to each other and interacting everyday.
I love her, but find her constant need to see me, talk to me, do things with me, far too much to deal with. So, I certainly do not let my parents interfere with my life. I avoided it altogether by moving away.
However, I know quite a few people who do. They respect their parents' opinions (without thinking about said opinions) so much that they let them get in the way and, sometimes, ruin their lives.
Mommy does not always know best. It's one thing to respect your parents and their decisions but it is another to let them run your life. Trying telling people that though *sigh*
@pankajlot (252)
• India
27 Feb 08
is this fare on your part tell me this honestly,every parent want their child to stay in front of their eyes so there is nothing wrong that your parents are doing ,but its up to you ,i would say you are very lucky to have such caring parents!
@ShardAerliss (1488)
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27 Feb 08
I lived with my dad from 13 and he has a very laissez-faire approach to family. He believes, and he has told me this; children have their own lives, parents should not expect them to stick around and play house all their lives. He always allowed me, and expected of me, a lot of independence.
@pankajlot (252)
• India
28 Feb 08
He always taught you to live your life your way because he never wanted to put any sort of pressure on you
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
27 Feb 08
Seeing how i've been on my own since I was 13 yrs old, no I dont tolerate interference by my mother..in fact I dont even talk to her..
@pankajlot (252)
• India
27 Feb 08
i can understand your concern but still i feel our parents are the ones brought us to this world so we should always admire them ,but yours is different case you can decide for your self what you have to do!! thank you very much for your response
