How often do you speak to your family

@overhere (515)
United States
February 27, 2008 5:02pm CST
I moved from the UK to the US four years ago and miss my family . I speak to my mother, who is quite old and lives alone, once a week (I also write and send photo's). I speak to my sister more often and you'd hardly guess how long it is since we have actually seen each other(though it seems like days since she called me!). I also have a brother but I'm sorry to say I wouldn't cross the road to speak to him he really isn't a pleasant person. How often do you speak to your family?
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• United States
27 Feb 08
well i live with my grandparents and i talk to them as much as i can. my mother and i don't talk. . .she always seems to busy for me. though i wish we talked more. its sad, that i haven't talked to my father in over a year. i miss him terrably.
@overhere (515)
• United States
28 Feb 08
Families can be so much more complicated than mere friendships. Just remember that if you wish to speak to either one don't always wait for them to make the first move it takes two to hold a conversation. My mother always says oh I haven't heard from so 'n so and I say well have you rang them and she says no of course not! DUH!
• United States
28 Feb 08
your so right, thanks =]
@wseayuan (372)
• China
27 Feb 08
Now, i am studing in other ctty,i don't often see my family,i miss them very much.i often call them evey week.,and tell them something about me ,and know what happened in the family .i think we should speak to our family,they are the people who want us better.
@overhere (515)
• United States
28 Feb 08
It is certainly hardest when we first leave home and our all that is familiar. Keeping in touch and sharing all that is going on is what keeps us closest (I have found my blog a great help for that. Hang in there and good luck with your studies.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
27 Feb 08
Other than by brief email maybe 4 times in the past 1+ yrs I haven't spoken to my mother...and havent seen her in almost two yrs which is fine...I havent spoken to her ex husband (my "father") since I was 17 and have no intention of speaking to him ever again..My sister and I havent spoken or seen each other in 9 yrs and I've not talked to or seen my brother in 2 yrs....
@overhere (515)
• United States
28 Feb 08
Wow that is a long time. Maybe my family isn't as dysfunctional as we always imagine. It's strange how all the story books create this "perfect" image of families but it is rarely ever the case in true life.
@lightningMD (5931)
• United States
27 Feb 08
I talk to my Mom about 5 times a week. I talk to my daughter almost every day on yahoo messenger.I talk to my Son about once a week.I call a cousin of mine about once a month. Other than that I only rarely talk to other family members.
@overhere (515)
• United States
28 Feb 08
Computers make it so much easier to keep in touch these days I have great respect now for all the English war brides who came to America after WWII leaving family and everything they knew so far away they must have been an amazing bunch of women with none of our modern day conveniences like Phones and computers
@martus (121)
• Philippines
27 Feb 08
Mine is every weekends, as I am working from the other city. Thats the only time that i can speak and meet my family. Sometimes, my mother who miss me so much, that she will call to my office just to greet me.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
27 Feb 08
I talk to my mother everyday. My father calls several times a week. My sister and I talk a few times a week as well as one of my brothers. I have another brother that I talk to maybe once every 2 weeks, but I talk to his wife several times a week. I have 2 other brothers that I do not talk to very often. Maybe once a month to one of them and twice a year to the other.
@overhere (515)
• United States
28 Feb 08
I'm almost envious of your obvious closeness to all your family as you can see from other responses it isn't always the case. Are you lucky enough to live close to them all too?