Why so hard to find life partner ?

@yellows (245)
Malaysia
February 28, 2008 11:27pm CST
Its easy to get boyfriends or girlfriends but why so hard to find life partner ? Even me still looking for mr.right. Few mans that I meet just not suitable for me. Maybe Im type of chooser, thats what my mother told me. But I believe someday I will find somebody that what I call as a 'life partner'. I dont know when and where, age is up but still single...
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7 responses
• India
29 Feb 08
Hi.. Its not hard to get a life partner.But its not that how u love in the beginning but its matters how is ur relation till the end
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@yellows (245)
• Malaysia
1 Mar 08
Its hard to get life partner when the love in the beginning was ended half way.
@lucksath (92)
• India
29 Feb 08
Hello yellows, I am sure you would have heard the proverb that "Marriages are made in heven". In my opinion the proverb has come in to use keeping in mind how difficult to find a correct partner. Let it be arranged marriage or love marriage getting a "life" partner is vey hard that too if you are a stubborn chooser.You have to keep in mind the age also and make some sacrifices of your choices because everything can be corrected even after marriage - but if age goes it will not come back. Don't get worried, soon you will get a partner of your choice.God bless you. All the best.
@yellows (245)
• Malaysia
1 Mar 08
In term of my religion, marriege is fixed by God. Yeah chooser is not good. Im voiding this habbit now. Thanks God, I wonder how my partner that God will send to me as my partner :) God Bless you too lucksath.
@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
29 Feb 08
Actually there is no such thing as Mr. Right at all. You will really find it hard to find that person because he is almost non existent. There is nothing wrong by being a very choosy person. What I can suggest is just be as open minded to anyone that might come to your life and maybe lower your expectations from him as nobody's perfect.
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@yellows (245)
• Malaysia
29 Feb 08
Yes your right, my mr.right might not exist. My mistake is that always dreaming high expectation from man than perfect. I will stop dreaming from now. Who ever come to my life, than I'll open my heart :) and learn to know them, even its take time.
@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
29 Feb 08
I guess a life partner isn't someone you need to look for. If you're meant to be married, the right one will come naturally. You're still young, though. There are so many in this world that you may meet. Take your time and enjoy your youth! I always thought that the person I was with before was going to be my partner for a lifetime. I was wrong. My life partner turned out to be a man who would come from oceans and seas, and 7000 miles away! And I never expected that!
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@yellows (245)
• Malaysia
29 Feb 08
Wow, how do you meet your life partner? Since his come from far than your love journey must be very unique and beautiful, isn't. Yes, absolutely I mean of married. As you say right now Im enjoying my youth ages, I'd finished my high school. Now Im getting bored playing around. Im thinking of someone that will take care together whole life, as you say I believe the right one will come naturally. Thanks for this nice comment :).
@una1129 (271)
• China
29 Feb 08
Right. For me it's difficult to find a boyfriend,i don't know why, maybe i'm too particular.
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@yellows (245)
• Malaysia
29 Feb 08
Boyfriends..? Yeah many people have this problem. 'Just a boyfriends' is easy to find for some people but a 'steady boyfriends' bit hard to maintain especially in young ages.
• United States
29 Feb 08
i used to go through this stuff with women..starting when i was in college i took advantage..and most do if they get the chance..as men are never mature enough when it comes to marriage or infidelity..but it took a long time before I got common sense and settle down..i was 40 and my wife was 33 and she lived in Tokyo and born in Philippines and I was a German American third generation..but you make mistakes and move on.. so i finally met my life partner 22 years ago and it has not been a bed of roses but we are better off then we were 22 years ago..I am now retired from Ford Motor with pension and my wife always work..as a nanny..for new born babies..we did not have any children..but i did have a daughter 37 now and son 36...13 months apart..but soon divorced for many reasons..mostly we both were immature and could not get along outside ...as i work too many hours and she always want to have fun and party...she was nice looking German girl..but I think I was not man enough then as she has since been married six times and still single..but my wife now is never married and has had no relations until 33..so it happens and you just get lucky and as we say "thrid time charm" as my second wife she was Indian lady with four children but she got me a good job at Ford Motor Company but she too liked to drink too much and she was nice when she was not drinking..but she always drink more then me..so we parted friends..but she too worked at Ford in another plant..and she never remarried but she is retired..and 70? well i am old man of 63 and am grandpa..but there is always hope and as long as you are pure in heart and do your best..try to get like kind to be your partner..life is not easy..but don't pick justy anybody...thanks for your post..Have Faith..and be Honest always..
@yellows (245)
• Malaysia
29 Feb 08
Hi asawako thanks very much for your respond. You got many experienced about marriege. Im glad to read your experienced. My parents were separeted but never divorced. My farther remarried but my mother never married again. I dont want to be like them, hopely my future life partner will be forever the only one. Sure Im learning to accept man now but as you say I'll not pick just anybody :)
@subha12 (18441)
• India
29 Feb 08
I think its the way of life. when you want to find someone for some special purpose, you wont find easily. also its really tough to find someone taht you like very much as life partner. don't worry you will find Mr Right soon. best of luck.
@yellows (245)
• Malaysia
1 Mar 08
Thank you subha12, yes I feel better now, my mr.right will come soon :)