moved,feeing,same

China
February 29, 2008 6:13am CST
i had a talk with my colleague this afternoon.it is the usual one that we always start,but it did not go on usually .we found out that we shared the same lonely feeling after we came to our office at the same time.it was a kind of feeling that you do not belong to any group and after work you do not konw where you can go and who you can talk.i was somewhat moved .i think i will not be lonely any more because i konw that someone is feeling the same with me .do you have the same experience? are you moved by such kind of talk?
1 response
@toppet (8)
• Nigeria
29 Feb 08
yes u are right, there are times like that where after work, classes, seminars, social-gatherings, etc you'll come to observe that you are in a world of your own. Because there will be nobody to talk to and it makes you fill like an outcast. At first it makes me fill inferior and that complex weighs one down. So i decieded to do two things. First i decieded to make them my friends, as many as possible by saying something to these other peiole or group. Though it looks weird but i gave it a try. Though it didn't work instantly, but with time it did work. And the second thing i would have done is i'll be myself and do nothing but watching the other groups and see if i could get to know the things they did that brought them together, and learn how to mix
• China
1 Mar 08
thanks for your advice.i will try myself to be more optimisstic and make friends with others.and this is also the purpose i come to MYLOT.will you be my friend?