When he repeats the same pleace is he cheating..

United States
February 29, 2008 11:31am CST
ok so my boyfriend is always saying he'll be home right after work but instead when i call him he says hes at a friends house and i hear girls in the background.. whats up with him.. do you think he is cheating.. he says he loves me with every beat of his heart but i aint usre if it true..
4 responses
@yannycui (376)
• China
2 Mar 08
It is different to distinguish true love and lying words. My ex did the same thing. He told me he was busy with business while hung out with chicks. I was very angry with him and tired to think about whether he was cheating me or not. So I chose to leave him. When I told him my decision, I also told him that if I misunderstood him I would loose a good man,while if I did a right thing I gave myself a new start. Now I am living along with my daughter.I am happy now because I am no longer worried about him.
@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
1 Mar 08
I'm sorry to say but this sounds very suspicious to me. Best wishes to you.
@jhl930 (3601)
• United States
29 Feb 08
I think that if i were you I would really look into what he says that he is doing and start asking alot of questions because to be honest with you it sounds like he could be cheating or either just about to cheat..because if he always cancels on you and says that he is going to his friends house and then when you call you can hear a womans voice in the background...i wouldn't really enjoy that too much if i were you and i would ask questions...
@jsharriz (436)
• Ukraine
29 Feb 08
if u r n a serious relation u shud probably believe ur bf cos faith makes the relation better.. if u really think he's into smthing check it out directly rather than havin doubt for ever..