MEN! what's up with the way most of them think?

South Africa
March 2, 2008 1:58am CST
I am becoming a hermit of late. I am sick of going out having a few drinks, maybe a game of pool and dancing only to be saddled with oxygen thieves on leaving the place at the end of the night. What's up with men that think just because you spoke to them, had a drink with them, played a few games of pool etc, that at the end of the night they EXPECT to jump into bed with you that night!!! I have refused - given them my number to call me the next morning (intoxicated men dont go down well with me)and no phone call??? These are men that are around my age (40-50)surely they are not STILL hormonal!!!!! thinking with the wrong brains!!! I am interested in hearing from men in this age group especially, about this please. Maybe some advice from you too as to the best way to handle these oxygen thieves (in my opinion)
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