lose my love

Welcome mamingrui... I agree with aowaow.. It was your last sentence... She was a cheater.. Why don't you try to look on the positive side... If she is really a cheater, why did she break with you? or If she is really a cheater don't you want to thank her because of what she did... She lessen the pain that she might cause to you... If you will fall on her to deep and refuse you... That would result to a more painful or deep heart ache for you.. At least she break your heart early than continue cheating you... Or if not she just stop loving you for some reason... ask your self a lot of times and talk to her in a very polite way... Heart to heart to know her valid reason for you to stop hoping that she will be back...

Your last statement might give you a good clue and reason for self-introspection before stepping on the next relationship.

things happen... maybe you did not see it coming.. but i do hope you will still be able to talk with her and clarify things with her. you will find your mate.. the one destined for your love and will love you back as much.

hey mamingrui! welcome to mylot. im very sorry to hear about your breakup. dealing with breakups is extemly dificult,especially when you lover cheater. hope things get better! and remember, they are tons of fish in the sea =]

hi, mamingrui,i'm really sorry to hear that. i don't know what happened to you and your partner.i guess even you don't know clearly either. in this case, why not to take a specific talk with her? you should make it clear at least,then you can make your own decision. before that, you must calm down first. in addition,i learn from your post that she loved you before but refuse you by some reasons now. i think it's not so right to regard her as a cheater. recall the happy time you spent together, which is true and never disappear even if she doesn't love you now. it's normal for a person to be sad when having suffered such pain. but don't be sad for a long time. i wish you pullyourself together soon.