Does age matter?

Philippines
March 4, 2008 4:17am CST
when it comes to having relationships, does age matter? is it wrong to date someone younger or older than you? there was one instance in my life that i really liked someone but then he was about 4 years younger than i was so i hesitated and didn't go for it...
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9 responses
• Indonesia
4 Mar 08
Being old is a must, but being mature is a choice. Sometimes our biological age is different than our psychological age.
• Philippines
5 Mar 08
i totally agree with that one!
6 Mar 08
nah. If you love someone go for it... I dated a man who was 12 years older than i am.. But then we werent just meant for each other
• Malaysia
5 Mar 08
Yes, if you want to get closer relationship with someone in your lifetime.It's because of physical matters as well as the young or old thinking minds will influence our judgement or lifestyle.Unless you try to pretend it's doesn't matter but inside your heart, you know how to compare or worry about something might happen if "I grow older and older", am I right?
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
5 Mar 08
Age doesn't matter as long as the maturity level is the same. the only time that age would matter is if the person you were thinking about dating was way immature for his age, but that could go either way...young or old. if the two of you are on the same level, then age is really just a number. God bless
@moondan (712)
• China
5 Mar 08
In my opinion,age is not the matter to have relationship with your lover and friend.Finding a person who really love you and you also love her/he so much is difficult.If you consider the age so much.It will be more hard for you to find you real lover.Well goes an old saying:"height is not distance,weight is not stress,age is not question."Falling love with the person who have the right age with you is better,but i will not consider the age as matter or obstacle.love only because love without nothing. If you love her/he and she love you,be try .
@manya_pearl (1901)
• Singapore
5 Mar 08
For me, yes. Absolutely yes! From my experiences, dating someone younger, usually boring and corny joke. I dont know, they are at first attract me, but later on, i found it boring! I like guy who is older 2 years from me, usually they are more matured and responsible compare to the younger ones...
• India
4 Mar 08
No i think LOVE is really pure and divine .As far as age is concern i think should notbe a problem at all.Since love can happen to anone anywhere and anytime so the boundations of age does not come across as a problem
• India
4 Mar 08
i do'nt think so becoz are u able to a image infront of someone she cannot refuse it
@hill419 (11)
• United States
4 Mar 08
Dating someone older or younger then you depends on the situation. For instance, a 5 year age difference means a whole lot more when one person is 15 and the other is 20, then when one is 35 and the other is forty. Basic judgement should let you know whether it is right or wrong.