What Would You Do About A Secret Crush?

United States
March 4, 2008 2:08pm CST
If you found out that your sister in law's husband or found out a friend's husband or wife for the guys, had a crush on you, and you thought you felt the same way, how would you handle it?
2 responses
@SukiSmiles (1991)
• United States
4 Mar 08
I would leave well enough alone, they are already in a relationship with someone else. If you act on that feeling, then you would be hurting people you love or know. They would not be able to trust you later. Would you be willing to sacrafice your friendship with these people for a fling with their spouse? And trust me, I've been there and usually you are the one that gets hurt.
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• United States
4 Mar 08
I would totally leave it alone. What a mess that could create. Also, if I myself were in a relationship, I would question myself as to what was wrong in my present relationship that I would even entertain thoughts of acting out crushes with someone else. For me, it would be a wake up call. I could never betray a friend or family member. I also think that a person who had a wondering eye that was already in a relationship with someone else would not be attractive to me. I would view them as sort of a flirt and player.