How to help someone to think positively?

Croatia (Hrvatska)
March 4, 2008 5:37pm CST
Yes that's her problem. Only thinking bad. I tried and tried to change her point of view, but without success. I think that I'm falling in love with her, but she is so scared. Should I just wait and how long?
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4 responses
thefreeson
@thefreeson (3)
• Indonesia
6 Mar 08
The question is how much you love her. You must understand nobody perfect. It's wrong when you said that's only her problem. You can't make her think positively and that's your problem,isn't it?. Now, if you really love her, first you should listen to her MUCH. She just need your love. Don't take seriously when she think bad. Smile and make a joke is good solution. Don't wait just do it.
Campino
@Campino (57)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
6 Mar 08
yes that's solution. If problem exist it is not only her, then problem for both. Sometimes is better just to listen to person without too much giving advice. Thank's a lot.
dzxq666
@dzxq666 (159)
• China
5 Mar 08
I have a good idea, you can take her to see the comedy movie, and sing a song to her, or tell her a joke, let her happy. Then her mind will be changed.
Campino
@Campino (57)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
5 Mar 08
Hm, ussually I have no problem to make people happy. With mey iron will and positive tinking I am proud that I have changed some people decision's which have changed thir live's in a better way, but now I think that I am on the toughest task.
NeoComp
@NeoComp (1316)
• United States
4 Mar 08
Yeah if you think positive and keep a positive mind.. there is nothing you can't do in life.. You will be able to do anything and everything.. and make lots of money.. and reach all your goals. this is truth.. and this is wisdom.
kykidd
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
4 Mar 08
It is so hard for us to change ourselves, how can we even think that we can change another person. I think it is best just to be yourself, kind and considerate, maybe then she will come around. Good luck.