If it doesn't fit in the sink: Do the dishes!

dishwasher - dish washer
@ebsharer (5515)
United States
March 5, 2008 7:39am CST
That makes sence right? Why am I the only one in the house that thinks the dishes should be done if there isn't any more room in the sink! I would like to see dishes put in the dish washer each time they are used but I know thats asking too much. So I will settle for the dishes being done when the sink is full and you start putting them on the counter. How often do your dishes get done? Who does them? Do you have a dishes "routine"? Do you have to ask some one else to do the 25 times before they do??
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@sminut13 (1783)
• Singapore
5 Mar 08
hahaha i didn't think of doing dishes as a routine. i admit sometimes i feel real lazy and if it's those big dishes, i tend to leave it alone for a while so long as my hubby is not at home. he's more of a clean freak than me. but i usually do my dishes immediate after lunch or dinner itself. i am the only one doing the dishes. my hubby don't really do them unless, sometimes he's free and has got time to waste. grins but now, i'm preggy so he does them more often for me as i feel real lazy. sweet of him. i dont have to ask him.
@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
5 Mar 08
To be quite honest my husband WAS a clean freak. I mean every thing had its place and thats where it was. I guess in the begining I spoiled him. I did it all now that there is 3 kids in the house its hard for me to do every thing in the house PLUS work 40 hours a week.
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@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
5 Mar 08
Soak it up ... When I was pregnant I worked up to about month 8 then I sat on my FAT as$ and didn't do a thing lol. But after I had my daughter I got up and did things again. I stayed at home till she was about 9 months. I try to do most every thing in the house still but it gets hard. I keep trying to make a deal with him ... You unload in the morning when your home I will load in the evening when I am home. He does some times but not often. This week I couldn't even get him to take out the garbage which is the one thing in the house I will NOT do. I left him a note yesterday - Take out the garbage or sleep on the couch! - He took out the garbage lol.
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@sminut13 (1783)
• Singapore
5 Mar 08
wow 40 hours a week is a feat. i'm amazed with you for being able to manage 3 kids and work. that's so cool. for me, i don't think i'm spoiling him. in fact, our quarrels are usually cos of the cleanliness. hehe my fault you could say since i'm the lazy type and don't do things that well. oh well, i try and sometimes a little quarrel spices the marriage. grins
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@whittby (3072)
• United States
5 Mar 08
My son's job was to load and unload the dishes. It got to the point where I didn't want to look at the dirty dishes in the sink, so I changed his job to unloading - that's my least favorite part anyway. This way I don't have to look at dishes when he's not home to load them, and I don't have to do all that bending unloading the dishwasher. I still have to remind every single day to unload the thing - and more than once. whit
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@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
11 Mar 08
Totally agreed! I hate to unload. Don't mind loading at all. Got to love kids ... they know they are surpost to do some thing but they have to be told a hundred times. Thanks!
@jaredlp (418)
• United States
5 Mar 08
dishwasher is ran minimum of once a day here. you put what ever u dirty in it, i start it before i go to bed.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
5 Mar 08
We have a dishwasher, but I wash dishes by hand more than I use the dishwasher. Dishes get done at least once and up to 3 times a day on most days. More times if I have some toffee to make. Then they get washed more often. I have made 6 batches of toffee a day before, so those dishes get washed every time PLUS the regular dishes.
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@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
11 Mar 08
What do you make toffee for ??
@luvstochat (6907)
• United States
5 Mar 08
I am the only one in my family that does the dishes. I do them by hand I do them a couple times a day usuall once in the mornings and once in the evening. I have a dishwasher but have never used it I don't mind doing them by hand and that way I also know they are really clean. My son puts the dishes away though so he does help out with them.
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@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
5 Mar 08
I could not imagine not using my dishwasher! With 5 in the house right now I have enough to do!
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@littleone3 (2063)
5 Mar 08
Well as a rule i never wash the dishes but this is more down to being allergic to most washing up liquids even with gloves on. But we do have a routine my three eldest children takes turns in doing the kitchen every day after dinner. Any dishes that dont fit in the dishwasher we insist that they wash up by hand. Mostly they do it with out complaint but sometimes we do have to ask more than once.
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@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
11 Mar 08
Can't wait till my kids are older and can do dishes lol. I have started one of them on helping load and one on unloading.
@reinydawn (11643)
• United States
6 Mar 08
I know, that happens here all the time. Mostly because when someone else puts stuff in the dishwasher, they don't stach it right and only get about half the dishes to fit then run it. I tell them how to stack it so that everything fits and you only have to run it once, not twice. Right now I'm very busy at work, so I don't have time to keep up with the dishwasher. I tell them if they just empty it - and put the stuff where it belongs - I can keep filling it. That doesn't usually work too well either...
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@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
12 Mar 08
I am the same way you unload and I will load. I do all the cooking and I am willing to load the dishwasher so I think the least they can do is unload it!
@reinydawn (11643)
• United States
21 Mar 08
Thanks for the best response. Lately, I have been so busy at work that my husband (or son, I'm not sure which) has been doing the dishes...
@Trace86 (5030)
• United States
6 Mar 08
I find the same thing happening at my house. I seem to be the only one who does the dishes. My stepson will leave the dishes in his room until they are moldy and rotten. Then he will throw them away when I am not looking. He denies it, but where the heck have all my dishes, silverware and containers gone? If and when he moves out, I will give him whatever is left of that stuff and buy myself some brand spanking new kitchenware! I deserve it.
@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
11 Mar 08
Thats when you don't let him use plates bowls dishes. Make a place in the kitchen he can use them other then that tell him to use a papertowel or his hand.
@Modestah (11179)
• United States
11 Mar 08
I hand wash the dishes as I am making a meal - that way there are not so many to deal with after wards. one thing that I have implemented is have the hot sudsy water in the sink and when the kids are done eating they can go and wash their own place setting - also any dishes that they use during the rest of the night for snacks etc... they are responsible to wash. this is cutting down in the amount that I have to do at any given time.
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@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
12 Mar 08
I do that too. I wash the dishes I am using to cook with. I also use the pots and pans to serve with instead of making another dirty dish to serve in. The only time I don't do that is when I have company then they get special stuff lol. But either way kids and men should do dishes too!
• United States
5 Mar 08
I'm the only person that attempts to do dishes in my house so how often they get done often depends on how I feel. Sometimes I do them right after a meal is cooked and other times the sink gets full and the counter tops are covered before I get around to it.
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@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
11 Mar 08
I try to do them right away but dont always have time. If I could get others to help it wouldnt be that big of a deal.
@gxnfly (1147)
• China
6 Mar 08
I do the dishes by hand.I do it just after finishing the diner.When you finish your meal ,It's good for your health to do a little excise,so doing dishes is perfect. When you finished it ,you give yoursely a clean and comfortable environment.
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@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
11 Mar 08
I am just sick of being the only one to do dishes.
@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
12 Mar 08
If I only had to do my dishes I wouldn't have a problem but I have to do dishes for myself and four others.
@gxnfly (1147)
• China
11 Mar 08
Really?haha,I am sick of being the only one doing the dishe too ,but too bad I am the only one who live in my apartment,haha I live on my own.
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@x7heavens (365)
• Singapore
6 Mar 08
I make sure that my dishes are done every time. Having 3 big children makes the job easier for me. I make up a timetable and they will have to follow. Breakfast, lunch, dinner, one mealtime for each child to clear the dishes. As for other times of the day, I will clear it myself. I hate to see something in the sink, even it is a spoon.
@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
12 Mar 08
I don't mind if the dishes don't get done right away it just aggervates me when the sink is full and they start leaving the dishes on the counter. That should be an indication its time to do dishes. I have an 11 year old and a 7 year old that could put there dishes in the dishwasher they just don't oh yeah and there that big kid called a husband that doesn't know how to put stuff in a dishwasher either.
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
6 Mar 08
I never do it.Our dishes are often done by my mother or my sister on time. I think it is no need to ask others to do it.
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@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
11 Mar 08
well aren't you nice you don't ask your mother or sister to do the dishes you just don't do them. DO THE DISHES!!
• United States
16 Mar 08
I hate seeing dirty dishes fill up the sink all the time so as soon as I dirty something up, I wash it by hand. We don't even use the dishwasher in our family unless we have people over and have dirtied a lot of plates. It'd kind of be a waste of water and energy to me, otherwise.
@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
18 Mar 08
We use our dishwasher a lot. I don't mind it being used as long as its filled when its run. Thanks for reading and responding to my discussion.
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
18 Mar 08
I have a dishwasher and my sink and counter top is still full of dirty dishes until I put them in the dishwasher. My husband and my step daughter are slobs and if it wasn't for me, the dishes would only get washed when they ran out of dishes and then who knows, they may not get done then either. They would probably just rinse off what they needed. I did complain one day about it to my step daughter so she did the dishes once and sid them with not even half a dishwasher full. What a waste of water and sopa that was. She did this on purpose just to rile me, I know it. lol I have gone away for two weeks to visit my daughter once, and when I got back I couldn't believe the state the kitchen was in. I don't think there was a clean dish or glass anywhere in the cupboards. And since the cupboards were bare I washed them out, too, and did the dishes and put them back in. It took me a day and a half to do them all in the dishwasher. I couldn't wash them by hand because the food was so dry on them I had to do them with super super hot water, so I did them in the dishwasher.