When is the Right Time to Fall in Love?

Zaragoza, Spain
March 5, 2008 8:04am CST
I really don't know the answer...i am really curious if there's really a specific time, right time, or a perfect time in falling in love...well, i can see lots of people who were falling in love, i can also hear them say that they're so in love and they would make it pretty obvious... I've also heard that there were also people falling in love at the wrong time...it's so confusing...if there's a right time for it, how come there's also a wrong time for it? So when is the right time to fall in love? Is there really a right or a wrong time in falling in love?
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23 responses
@mohnish (116)
• India
6 Mar 08
There is no particular time to fall in love and believe me it happens- you cannot do anything about it automatically you will start liking each and every thing of the person and you will be happy when he/she is happy and you will be sad when he/she is sad LOVE IS THAT THING ABOUT WHICH YOU CANNOT DECIDE ANY THING ,IT DRAGS YOU IN ITS WORLD
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@ann168 (111)
• United States
6 Mar 08
That is true.
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• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to mohnish and ann168...thanks for sharing both your beautiful thoughts and comments to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...yes, i guess that's really true, there's no particular time in falling in love...it just happens automatically, and you can't do anything about it...yeah, i've seen a lot of people feeling happy because they're in love, which is a good thing...yeah, i do agree with the saying that "Love is that thing about which you cannot decide anything, it drags you in it's world." as long as you felt the real love then that would be the right time for it...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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@saahilin (89)
• India
5 Mar 08
i don't think trhat any timm e is wrong to fall in,love but i thnk that when i we dream about someone all day with his/her words, his/her actions, his/her lifestyle, his/her compatibilty with us, his/her dreams to be fullfilled by us or with us.................and when we thought or come to knew about ourselves that something unpredictable and unsimilar as all in our past life is happening without our hold over it to stop all together what is happening in our life and our mind. and when we dream with open eyes in day timje when we have slept night very well.........without a single moment of eyes closed just thinking about someone who have become someone especisl to & for us without informing us. when someone atached to us socially, mentally, physically & physcologically all over in days perfect days of our life leaving us nothing other than to think about him/her....without if's and but's without even any condition of perfection in our life without him/her.......with glorious years of life in our life whether we stays together in future or not but thats love and we fall at that time without thinking of roght or wrong b'coz everything is right we knows at that time is nowhere wrong
• India
5 Mar 08
just read and think what's right..............
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• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for sharing your beautiful thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...i do respect your views and opinions...yeah, maybe there's is really no time in falling in love...and yes, when you dream someone, and think about that someone all day long, maybe it's a sign that you're falling in love already...yeah, i do agree, it's another sign of falling in love too, i guess, when you make that someone so special to you, and you make that someone attached to you socially, mentally, etc...yeah, you're right, that's love, falling in love without thinking if it's in a right or in a wrong time...i guess, it's all true...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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@Aussies2007 (5339)
• Australia
5 Mar 08
I don't think there is a wrong time to fall in love. On the contrary... anytime is a good time... because it is not something which happen everyday. Many people spend years looking for love. My only reservation about falling in love would be those teenagers who fall in love with anything which move. I think it is the wrong time for them... because it interfere with their studies. Some people might say that falling in love can interfere with their career. But you have to make a choice... or at least compromise to find the right balance... that is... if you want love in your life.
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@ann168 (111)
• United States
6 Mar 08
that is lust. I think if you didn't have a time for puppy love or first feeling about your first love then what is the spice of life? Life is composed of all emotions in love, hatred...spicing up your life. Then, later in life you found another love you can feel how deep the love is comparing to your first love. That is a life I think it should be.
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• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to Aussies2007 and ann168...thanks for sharing both your fascinating thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...i do respect both of your views and opinions to my discussion...yes, i do agree with you Aussies2007, falling in love is not something which happen everyday...yeah, i would agree that those teenagers are falling in love at the wrong time, because they need to focus their studies first before getting quite serious into love...yeah, it's true, there are some people too think that falling in love can interfere with their career...yes, falling in love is a choice...yeah, compromise to find the right balance...i think love is more important than anything else, so i would say i want love in my life...i know every people do wants to have love in their life... Thank you ann168 for sharing your views to my discussion...yeah, i do agree that life is composed of all emotions in love, hatred, which spicing up life...and i think, having a positive outlook in life and putting GOD in the center of our lives will make a better life... Thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day to all of U...may GOD BLESS U all always!!!
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@winterose (39897)
• Canada
7 Mar 08
the right time to fall in love is when both partners are emotionally ready, if you fall in love but the other person is not at all interested in you that qualifies as the wrong time, if you fall in love with someone else who may be in love with you but promised like in married to somebody else that also qualifies as the wrong time, if someone falls in love with you and you are not ready for a committment, that also is the wrong time. it is much easier to know the wrong times than the right this part is very tricky. as I said you have to be emotionally ready, some people find they cannot handle love, they want their independence to the point the other person is a nuisance and holding them back not enhancing their life. for example a person that is working 3jobs and never has a moment to themselves would not do well in a relationship where the other person needs and wants some time, they have no time to give them, that causes quarrels hurt feelings and eventual breakups.
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• Zaragoza, Spain
8 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for having a care to share your beautiful thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...that's really true, i really do agree, the right time to fall in love is when both partners are emotionally ready...yeah, both should be ready to dedicate their feelings for each other...there shouldn't be any excuses in love...as long as you're both matured enough to handle a relationship...most importantly, love should be the main reason...if you truly love the person, then that's real love...anything can happen if you just believe...falling in love is a beautiful thing to feel...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
@rsa101 (22631)
• Philippines
7 Mar 08
Well ideally it should come when you're ready for it already. Meaning you are matured enough to see what is right and what is wrong in falling in love. But most of the time it does happen when you least expect it to happen. I guess we only have to be watchful for it when they come and ready or not you should be prepared and enjoy the ride yourself. you just cannot stop that from coming because we will pass that stage again.
• Zaragoza, Spain
7 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for having a care to share your beautiful thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...yes, i do agree, it will come when you're ready for it already...yeah, you should be matured enough to see what is right and wrong in falling in love...and be matured and ready enough to handle a relationship...i guess, it's true, that sometimes it does happen when you least expect it to happen...falling in love, i think, is a beautiful thing...and finding the real love is really tough but it's all worth it if you've found it...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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@jc00771 (155)
• China
7 Mar 08
yes that's right time to fall in love, that's is after people grow up, :) 18 years ago maybe the least. when people become adult, as long as you meet the right one,i mean the one you love, it is the right time to fall in love. no matter when and where. if you do not,the it is not the right time. do be too hurry, maybe just at the next corner of the street you will me the right peole.
• Zaragoza, Spain
7 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for having a care to share your good thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...i do respect your views and opinions to my discussion...yeah, it's true,as long as you found the right person, the one that you truly love, then it's the right time...i think, falling in love at the right time is a good thing...i mean, if you really found the real love you've been waiting for...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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@ayou82 (3460)
• Philippines
6 Mar 08
There is no right time when it comes to love.. it can occur anytime of the day.. True love is hard to find though..but keep on trying till you find that happiness.
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• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for sharing your beautiful response to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...yeah, there's no right time when it comes to love...it can occur anytime of the day...i really agree with you, true love is really hard to find...you have to work for it and keep on trying until you find that true love and happiness...i think it's a good feeling to fall in love with the right person, who will truly love you and respect you in the same way...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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• India
6 Mar 08
Its so simple...When u are teenager....
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• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for sharing your good reply to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...i do respect your views and opinions regarding about it...yes, most teenagers fall in love, but it will be good if they will finish first their studies before engaging in a serious matter like love...they should be ready first to handle a reltionship, having a matured minds and emotions...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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@subha12 (18452)
• India
6 Mar 08
i think there is just no right time to fall in love. love comes when you do not know about it. it is most unpredictable nature. but its always good to enage in love after you are secured in career.
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• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for sharing your beautiful thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...yes, i do agree, it's good to engage in love when you are secured with your career...yeah, there's just no right time to fall in love, it comes to you unexpectedly...and yes, it is most unpredictable in nature...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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@Zhiwen (18)
• China
6 Mar 08
if you want ,you can.love is very beautiful.also,i am sigle now,but,i want to fall in love with somebody who i like.it only need time. so ,if you meet someone who you like,go on!
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• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for sharing your good thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...yeah, if you want love in your life then you should go for it...but it's good if you're really in love with that person...yeah, i do agree, love is a very beautiful thing...in your case, yeah, time is really needed...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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@ann168 (111)
• United States
6 Mar 08
I believe love will come in it own time and its own season. When your heart skips on beat at the time you meet a person you will know that it is love.
• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for sharing your good thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...yeah, i do agree, love will come in its own time and its own season...in GOD's time...yeah, maybe it's true, when you feel your heart beats fast when you meet the person you fell in love with...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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• United States
6 Mar 08
i'd hate to fall in love, as the saying goes, before i have had time to get to know myself completely. i'm still learning all about myself, i'm not ready.
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• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for sharing your good thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...it's a matter of choice, if you want to fall in love or if you don't want to...and in your case, you are not ready for it yet because you are still in the process of knowing yourself first...that's really understandable, there are also some people who's in that kind of stage too...but in GOD's time, for sure, you'll be falling in love at the right time when you think you're ready for it...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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@lishiwei (1553)
• China
6 Mar 08
I'm a freshman, and I also want to know this answer.But now I think every time is right if you can confirm you really like her or him,and want to live together with her or him. But the importent is that you two should have the same interesting,I think.
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• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for sharing your good thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...yeah, we're both in the same stage, searching for the truth in love...yeah, i guess, anytime is right as long as you feel the real love for that person...and as long as you are mature enough and ready to handle a relationship...sharing the same interest with the person you fell in love with is a beautiful thing too...well, i think falling in love is really good to feel especially if you are really in love with that person...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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@mykaylala (214)
• United States
6 Mar 08
I believe that when someone says they fell in love at the wrong time, they mean because there life is to complicated as it is and love sure does complicate things even more. When people say they fell in love at the perfect time I believe they mean because they are in a perfect point in their life where they don't have to many things going on. You just can't chose when the right time is though, It just happens and if you truly love someone enough then anytime will feel like it is the right time, once it happens it is hard to let go!
• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for sharing your beautiful thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...yes, i do agree, maybe when someone says they fell in love at the wrong time, it's because their life is to complicated as it is...and when some people say they fell in love at the perfect time, it's because maybe they are in a perfect point in their life falling in love...yeah, it's true, love just happens, and once you've found that someone and feels like it is the right time, it's hard to let go...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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@dzxq666 (159)
• China
6 Mar 08
when you meet the right people, then is the right time fall in love. That's no relate to the age. Maybe the god has arrange the everything.
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• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for sharing your good thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...yes, i do agree, i guess, it's really true, when you have meet and found the right person, then that would be the right time to fall in love...yeah, i really do agree that age doesn't really matter...yeah, it's true, falling in love in GOD's time would make a perfect time for love... GOD has arrange everything, and how beautiful are all HIS works...thanks really for sharing...to GOD be all the Glory...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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• Mexico
5 Mar 08
Hi angeljenn, it´s no so complicated as it appears. The right time to fall in love is when you feel good, comfortable and when you had find that person who fill your heart. The perfect time? Well, the perfect time is when you have all that things plus when you got something to give. When you are self-sufficient.
• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for sharing your beautiful thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...yeah, i do agree with you, maybe the right time to fall in love is when you feel good, comfortable, and when you find that person who fills your heart and makes you happy...yes, i guess it's true, the perfect time is when you have all those things when you got something to give...falling in love is good and a beautiful thing to feel in one's life...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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@izathewzia (5141)
• Philippines
5 Mar 08
As long as you are mature enough to handle relationship then it is the right time to be serious with love. But just to fall for the sake of falling, it can happen anytime. Just don't be so crazy about if you are not ready to have a serious relationship yet.
• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for sharing your beautiful thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...yes, i agree with you, as long as you are mature enough to handle a relationship then it's the right time to be serious with love...getting in a serious relationship is a good thing but you have to make it sure that you're really in love...being ready would make a relationship works...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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@chiyosan (30194)
• Philippines
5 Mar 08
is there? although i believe not everyone is always ready for love when it arrives, but when one feels love, and becomes a wonderful person because he is in love, that sure is already the right time. i believe that when a person is in love, all goodness in him/her is just reflected in what he does... though love can make people be at their worst too.. but that is entirely a different story. :D
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• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for sharing your beautiful thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...yeah, i would agree, not everyone is always ready for love, but when it arrives, and feels love then that person becomes wonderful, because it maybe it's the right time...yeah, there are people became good because of love, but there are also instances they become at their worst too...it really depends upon the situation...staying in love i guess, is a good and a beautiful thing to be felt...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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@Gesusdid (1681)
• United States
5 Mar 08
there's really no specific time for falling in love , sometimes it happens some times it doesnt , if you do fall in love your version might be different from the next persons , just becasue you fall in love doesnt mean the same person feels the smae way about you , sure they feel the love too but how deep is it ? thats the other question
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• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for sharing your good thoughts to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...yeah, i guess, it's true, there's really no specific time for falling in love...yeah, i do agree, it really depends upon the situation...yeah, i do agree, maybe you're falling in love with the person, but you don't know if that person feels the same way too...or let's just say, that person feels the same way too but how deep is it...yeah, i do agree it's another question...the main point there is, there's no specific time for falling in love, it just happens...thanks really for sharing...have a blessed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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@linghan (147)
• China
5 Mar 08
I don't think the problem is on the time .The impotant thing is whether they are love each other.The right time and the wrong time just a excuse.
• Zaragoza, Spain
6 Mar 08
hello there to U...thanks for sharing your good reply to my discussion...i really do appreciate it...yeah, maybe the time is not the problem...love is really the important thing and it should the right reason...as long as you felt love for that person, then there's no wrong time in falling in love...i don't know, but there are people who thinks that they are falling in love at the wrong time...but what's the main important is love...thanks really for sharing...have a blesed day ahead of U...may GOD BLESS U & UR family always!!!
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