Whether I should been in love

@lishiwei (1550)
China
March 5, 2008 8:41pm CST
I have 18 years old,I want to been in love,but I don'twehther is ok to do that now .Do you have any good idea or experence to tell me?
5 responses
@linghan (147)
• China
6 Mar 08
I think in your ages,education is the most important.
@linghan (147)
• China
13 Mar 08
Em,Good Luck to you ~_~
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
11 Mar 08
Yeah,education is the most important,but I think I aslo should try to do it.I think it's necessary .
@Dest274 (100)
• United States
15 Mar 08
u are fine dont feel that way its ok she should not stop u from doing u
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
15 Mar 08
Woohoo...you are right.I should do myself,not be limited by others.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
6 Mar 08
There is nothing wrong in falling in love. This is the right age. But you have to be careful not to fall prey to vultures - I mean people who try to cheat gullible persons in guise of loving. You can choose a person, findout whether that person is trustworthy, lovable, caring and start dating. Go steady. This is the time you can learn loving, dancing, enjoying the best of the world.
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
11 Mar 08
I agree with you,there is nothing wrong in falling in love.Thanks for your good reminds.I believe if I do as you said,I will have a good lover.
@Bluepatch (2476)
• Trinidad And Tobago
7 Mar 08
I was in love once for about 7 years with a girl I used to work with and I only had lunch with her about 4 times. She liked me as a friend but not as a lover. We never dated or exchanged kisses or anything. I still have feelings for her although only in memory since she has passed away. I'm 57 years old now and I will never regret this. Advice ? Take that real life experience as an example. Love is always worth it. Always.
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
11 Mar 08
I'm sorry to hear that!I have many femals friends are just keeep the ralitions like yours.
• Canada
6 Mar 08
Love comes in many shapes and sizes. You'll find that you never love two people in exactly the same way. At 18 you are still very young, but you also have some life experience behind you. You will probably fall in and out of love many times before you settle, and that's just the way it should be :) The "hot" love you may have when you feel that you are in love with someone is all well and good, but the love that lasts a lifetime is often something "softer" and more encompassing. Even within a relationship you will find that your feelings will adjust and change over time. That's part of the wonderful thing about love. As you grow and learn about love try not to let your emotions completely overrule your brain. You need a lot more than those hot and sexy feelings to keep a relationship going for the long run.
@lishiwei (1550)
• China
11 Mar 08
You mean I will have more experience before I decide which one to be the best and most fit for me.Oh,then what's the end?But I agree with you that we shouldn't keep a relationship by the hot and sexy feelings to for the long run.