Have you ever given up on something you really wanted to do, to help

I have always been pretty good about helping people out when they need it. Some are grateful and others are not. I continue to try to help people when they need it if I am in a position to help them.

Yes, I have given up on trying to help this one person whom I considered one of the most important people in my life. I cared so much for her. I worried about her situation and when she needed advise, she would come to me and ask my opinion. I was always there for her. But all of a sudden, she decided to disregard my opinion. That hurt me so much. So I realized maybe my opinion didn't count anymore. In the beginning, I kept on crying about it. My fiance tried his best to console me. Now, I have opened my eyes. It's about time I just let it go. I have stopped thinking or worrying about her situation, especially these days I know she's in a rut. I don't want to ask how she is anymore and just wish that whatever she does, she does things for the best.

Sure I have. Some have appricated it others took me for granted. But I would do it again. IT not only helped them but, I felt great about helping them, whether or not it was appricated.

i tried to help someone and i thought they appreciated it but in the end i found out they took me for granted and for everything i would give. i know it is silly but this person may need it again soon and i think i would try and help again but not as much as i did before.

It is, definitely, hard to make sacrifices and have your sacrifice ignored. Not everyone expresses their gratitude. Sometimes, I might just write it off as someone who doesn't express appreciation. A lot of the time, however, I think I would feel jaded -- unwilling to help in the same manner again.

I am always taken for granted by the person I want. At first, I usually ignore the down feelins but most of the time time tells me that I should stop doing it cause I amnot contributing and goos for continuing..