Is it possible to find solace with negetive partner,if yes how?

I am sorry to hear you are feeling so bad with your situation. I can tell you that you're not the only one in this position. Even though I adore my husband he is very quick to criticise others, he always thinks his opinion is the right one and he can be oh so judgemental that it makes me want to scream sometimes. But at the end of the day, that is how he is, he's over 40, he's not really going to change at this stage in his life, but there are so many other things about him that I love that I can try not to be bothered about his incessant complaining about other people. He does it about certain people and about others he is very pleasant. I can't make him like everyone but when he criticises my family members it does hurt but I try not to retaliate. E.g. if he complains about my dad's behaviour (which is funny because they're both very similar characters) I would not turn around and criticise his dad as that would be petty. He will complain about my friends but I won't turn around and do the same about his. try not to let it bother you so much, I am sure there are other things you can discuss which won't cause so much conflict? Good luck :)

I'm happy with my life now. As long as I don't harm people and I don't ruin other people's life. I don't like to look down or talk bad thing about other people and everybody have the same level with me. I like to live with my own way and people don't have right to disturb because i don't need people to feed me.