• United States
9 Mar 08
I think the best thing about being single is being able to reconnect with people you have lost touch with. If you have some spare time get together with some friends and go out somewhere to dance, play pool, or whatever you may be interested in. If you can't afford to go out and do something, invite some friend's over for a movie night or game night. If none of these work, find something you enjoy doing reading, writing, watching movies, playing games on the net, or anything else you can find to do.
• United States
20 Mar 08
Being single after any kind of relationship is a hard thing to do. When with someone you form a normal routine. Mostly you become comfortable with that person. As time moves on you will become comfortable with yourself. I think that is the most important thing. Yes there will be ups and downs, however surround your life with people and things that make you happy. Invite people out as a group try new things. Best of all you dont have to ask anyone permission lol.I was with my high school sweet heart for 7 years and have been without him for a year now, even though i chose to end the relationship it still hurt. It took me a long time to find who i was and define myself without him. However it did happen and yes there was a lot of sad moments, during those times i leaned on others and people i loved to help ease everything. I am standing tall now and I really know who I am. I hope that you can find yourself too and find what makes you happy.