Stressing!!!!

United States
March 9, 2008 3:15am CST
Recently my family and I moved to Georgia. I have been wanting to move here for quite while since I have always felt drawn to the south and my best friend lives here and has been wanting me to come. We have not been here long, only since February. We used our tax refund money to move here and keep us aflaot untill we had an income coming in. Everything WAS going great. We had only been here a little less than two weeks before my husband found employment. My kids have adjusted and gotten setttled into the school here well. This state is beautiful. My friend and I are able to get together every weekend...What could possibly be wrong? Well, as I said, everything WAS great..... untill this past Friday afternoon. Friday, my husband received a phone call informing him that he had been laid off! Okay, we are currently living in a motel and paying rent by the week, as it was our plan to do it this way untill we could find an apartment or something. We have no savings. My husband's income is our only income. (so, ok, maybe our planning wasn't to great, but, we knew that it wouldn't take my husband long to find a job when we got here because he is skilled trades....except we didn't count on him getting laid off or anything of that nature so soon afterwards...). We still have not had a chance to transfer our car over and get Georgia plates or anything, the plate expires at the end of this month....So what do we do now?!....I mean, we have money to cover the rent this week and my husband still has one more check coming so we have money to cover the rent next week also..But since it takes 2 weeks to get your first check when you start a new job, and takes at least a little time to find a job, it is not likely he will find a new position before our money runs out. He has registered at a number of employment agencies and has decided to work at one of those, daily work--daily pay places until he gets offered another regular job somewhere...But what if that place doesn't have a job assignment for him every day? What if it's not enough?...I think I might try to find a job temporarily till we get back on our feet, but, it isn't going to be easy for me to find anything fast because 1. I have to find something within walking distance since we only have one car and my husband needs that to get to the daily work, daily pay. 2. My hours of availability are limited because I can only work while my kids are in school since I can't afford child care and 3. I have not worked in 4 years because I have been a stay at home mom.....hmmm...I don't know why I'm spilling all this here...I'm just totally stressed...
3 responses
@cbiznetz (88)
• United States
9 Mar 08
COUNT how many times you said "WHAT IF" try saying, WHAT ARE MY OPTIONS: I don't know what area you are in, but in the woodstock area there is a MEGA church that has many many many support programs for you. Call united way, call first baptist woodstock, CALL ANY CHURCH and if you can confirm your situation with the help of your FRIEND who is FROM here, you can get help. If worse comes to worse..ask your friend for social services here. ATLANTA is full of services. SEARCH ATLANTA HUMAN RESOURCES on the net, or your area. THERE ARE A TON OF PROGRAMS TO HELP very friendly if you have ID and proof of who your are. hope this helps. cbiznetz
• United States
9 Mar 08
Actually, I'm in Woodstock! Thanks for telling me about the church! Yes, I do know that there are certain organizations that help out in these matters, but the main problem is, from past experience, it takes more time than we have to get that help. We will check with those churches though, and we were already thinking about seeking assistance with any other organizations we can find anyways. Thanks again!
• United States
9 Mar 08
FBCW First Baptist Woodstock can give you mediate aide,and money.
• United States
9 Mar 08
Okay, we'll look into that. Thanks!
@jillmalitz (5131)
• United States
10 Mar 08
You have every right to vent. I can understand how you feel. Did your husband's employer give him any reason? It seems to be a tough time around this country. Hopefully it wont take him long to find work. I know that sometimes local churches might be able to help a little. You say you have friends there? Maybe they might know of something to get you over the hump. Actually you just made me feel a little better cause I have been in the dumps. My husband had to take a paycut last year. We had to move from the house we were renting to a tiny townhouse. I have not worked in over 8 years. Had I known this would happen I would have continued to work cause now everything I did for years requires certification. I'm trying to find a job online but I have been looking for over a year and come up empty. Hang in there.
• United States
11 Mar 08
Hi jill..., I'm glad I could make someone feel better, lol. He was laid off because the work load was slow and he was the low man on the totum pole. We are checking into assistance from churches and other organizations. Thanks for the relpy and the encouragement.
@qiao522 (449)
• China
9 Mar 08
from the very beginning,you were happy. as an old saying:every coin has two sides. and we call it our life. So I do think you can get all this mess through. Come on!
• United States
9 Mar 08
Thanks for the encouragement!