forgive and forget

Philippines
March 10, 2008 9:48am CST
are you a kind of person who forgives and forget? or you forgive but never forget? I maybe mean but i'm a kind of person who never forget...i can easily forgive but no matter what happen the incident will remain in my mind and every time i see the person involve...i will always remember the details. Are you one of my kind? Do you think it's wrong?...have you had any experience wherein you forgive and forget?
1 response
@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
10 Mar 08
Forgiving is a lot easier than forgetting. But they say that if you can't forget, than it's just like you have never forgiven at all. I am having difficulty on this at this point in my life. I have been hurt too much by someone and I feel too much anger inside of me. The feeling is not good. Everytime this person's name comes up, I can actually feel hatred bursting from inside my chest. I need to forgive, and yes, to forget, to be able to feel that complete peace within me.
• Philippines
17 Mar 08
I got your point, but in my case I've learn to forgive without forgetting but I actually feel at ease, I mean whenever I see the person involve, I'll remember the "event" but I will not feel any hurt or pain coz i'm over it..