Do you know someone SUPER indecisive ?
By Sissygrl
@Sissygrl (10909)
Canada
March 10, 2008 10:25am CST
If you do, do you just end up making the decisions when you get together ? or are you both indecisive so nothing ever gets done?
I am fairly indecisive, but i like to have a decision made about some things.. especially if they are important!!
What is the worst case of indecisiveness you've ever whitnessed ? or maybe the most recent?
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
10 Mar 08
Oh geez lol...this is quite possibly the root of most of the problems s/o and I have! He can't decide if he wants to grow up, he can't decide if he wants to move out of his parents' house, he can't decide whether he should look at me, the computer, or the tv when I'm talking to him, he can't even decide if his family is more important than his precious hobby.
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
10 Mar 08
aww...you can come out now! I've reached the point where I find his indecisiveness really ridiculous so I chuckle to myself instead of getting angry now.
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@ctrymuziklvr (11057)
• United States
10 Mar 08
Personally, I can't make a decision to save my life! When my Mom was alive I called her for advice for every little thing. Now I have nobody to call and dread the day something big comes up.
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
10 Mar 08
UGH, my husband is so indecisive, that we get into trouble a lot of times because instead of dealing with the problem, he waits it out, like it is going to be fixed on it's own...
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@skinnychick (6905)
• United States
13 Mar 08
Just now I had my pretty much every day scenario. I'm at school and it is dinner time..we have a huge selection of food and it is pretty good! So every time I eat here it takes me a half hour to decide. The it even starts to drive me nuts so I pick something. Then after I eat, I always think to myself maybe I should have gotten my second choice instead. I'm very indecisive in some things and other things it seems to be easy for me to make a decision!
@cynicalandoutspoken (4725)
• United States
10 Mar 08
Every time my sweetie and I say we want to go out and enjoy ourselves it is always left up to me what restaurant we go to, what movie, what bar, what activity, EVERY THING!
It drives me nuts! Just once I would like to be told where we are going, what time we are leaving, and whether he would like me to wear the sweater or the knit top.
@sweetaspie52 (2359)
• United States
11 Mar 08
I have been indecisive in the past I will tell my friend that I am going to do something and change my mind about it and I keep putting it off until I wake up one morning and start to give the house a good cleaning,or I plan on going to the store and I change my mind and I think that it is terriable I usually want things done the moment I think about it I guess it come with age lol
@myworkid1987 (755)
• United States
12 Mar 08
Yes I do...lol I am indecisive. Hubby ask me what i wanna do or something where I have to make a decsion and I say i dont care or I dont know and he always makes me pick and gets mad when I dont pick something cuz I dont care. why cant men just pick something. lol
@coffeeshot (3783)
• Australia
11 Mar 08
Yes, me! I am super duper indecisive. It tears me apart to make a decision sometimes. Anything from big issues to little things such as what colour hair band to wear in my hair in the morning. It's ridiculous. I blame it on the fact that I'ma Libran. Here is a description of a Libran's characteristics..Violent?? Ahh, no comment!
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Astrologers broadly agree that the following characteristics apply for those born under the sign of Libra: [11]
Cooperative • Diplomatic • Open-minded • Playful
Urbane • Fair • Partnership-oriented • Avoids conflict
Easy-going • Even-tempered • Strong • Refined
Balanced • Leader • Graceful • Artistic
Home-body • Charming • Abundantly pleasant • Debating
Flexible • Sensual • Very romantic • Idealistic
Equalitarian • Sociable • Vast financial opportunities
However, the same person is prone to:
Rationalize • Be easily deterred • Indecisive • Lazy
Changeable • Vain • Gullible • Easily influenced
Flirtatious • Conceited • Perfectionist • Aloof
Mildly vengeful • Can't say 'no' • Quarrelsome • Over-serious
Tries too hard to fit in • Cold • Self-indulgent • Cruel
Jealous • Violent (at times)
@jillhill (37353)
• United States
11 Mar 08
I do know some people that way...like if you are going out to eat and it's their choice because you take turns then they can't decide where they want to go and you drive around waiting for them to decide. I can be indecisive too.....recently I had to have the oil changed on my car. I had been having it done by the dealer I bought if from but they are 30 miles away and the weather hasn't been that nice.....the place I took my other car to...well everytime I had the oil changed they charged me extra for a light bulb or something....but they would pick it up where I work and return it when it was done....then there are a couple of other places I considered. I finally was driving by a oil change place...just pulled in and had it done...after two weeks of hemming and hawing about where I should take it!
@onewickedsoul (540)
• Philippines
11 Mar 08
Uhmm....me? Well, not that I am indecisive 100% of the time.It really depends on what kind of decision I need to make. If it is a hard decision, I tend to change my decisions a lot of times before I finally choose the best. The last time that I was faced with a very hard decision was when I had to choose to continue college and finish it. I stopped schooling for 2 years, I was a bum for a year, and worked on the next. After I worked, I finally decided to really pursue college and finish. I am graduating next month :)
@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
11 Mar 08
NO.. um.. I mean... YES!.. oh! .. not really!... well I don't know.. probably! LOL!
Actually, I'm the one that can never make up my mind.
Just finding an outfit for an important occasion takes days for me.. and then after I've asked everyone's opinion then I move on to shoes! lol! yeah, I'm really that bad!
The first worst case I've experience myself is when I couldn't decide what colors I was going to use in our wedding (my husband and I fought because he would say.. "I don't care.. whatever color you want") And it's been going pretty much down hill from there! lol! honestly, I think my husband is as bad as I am! tonight it took us 2 hours to figure out what we wanted to have for dinner! loL!
The only decision I am more sure about are those concerning our children I have never wavered on those decisions.
@TAPARIA (313)
• India
11 Mar 08
I think the most indecicive person i have seen is my friend karan or perhaps Sameer or perhaps mathew or it may be my brother sammer. Oh leave it I cant dicide who is the most indecisive of them all. or perhaps maybee i know.....
@annieroos (1845)
• United States
10 Mar 08
OMG Yes.. my husband is like that.. if we go out to dinner for example.. i am like what do you want to eat... and he I don't know what do you want to eat. I tell him its your decision.. hes says like taco bell.. then saysss noooooo mc donalds nooooooo pizza...... then finally says you decide.. Omggg so i decide.. then when i decide... he sayssssss Nooooooooo i don't want that.. and then decidess..then changes his mind again.. finally i say thats it.. And i make the final decision.. and hes fine with it.. Buts like that on a lot of thingsssss movies, trips.. just about everything.. lol
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
10 Mar 08
Yes, my mother is very much like this that she can drive me insane at times. I love her dearly but gosh, she can drive me "miss daisy" sometimes. When it happends, I'll have to take the rein and decide for her so things will get a move on.
@novataylor (6570)
• United States
10 Mar 08
I can't stand indecision. If no one else can make a decision, then I sure will. Get off the fence, don't be so wishy washy, that drives me crazy. But what drives me crazier is when I get that way, and I do, rarely, but oh, it's awful. Then I just look for someone to tell me what to do. Hubby or mom or friend, someone, just tell me. If there's no one around that I can ask, I can pull it together enough to make some kind of a decision, but I always think it's going to be the wrong one. It isn't, but I always think it will be. I'm just so grateful that it so rarely happens. If it was more often, I'd lost what's left of my mind.
@sophiasmom911 (1345)
• United States
11 Mar 08
I'm a very indecsive person. Sometimes I go back and forth and think of all these diffrent outcomes and I end up stressing myself out completely. Instead of perhaps rolling with the flow, more. That something I'm not good at , I see myself as probally always being indescive
@PinkFloydFan77 (68)
• United States
10 Mar 08
Yeah, me. Sometimes I have moments where I can't make up my mind about anything. Lately, it's been about things to buy or what to have for dinner. I should have my own zip code because I always live in the state of Indecision. LOL
@gxnfly (1147)
• China
11 Mar 08
I have a friend who is fairly indecisive.She can't make any choices,always looking for help from others.Even if she made a choice ,it's quite usual that she might change her choice if somebody says something.Some people maybe is indecisive,that'OK,but SUPER indecisive is too much,even annoying sometimes.
I am not that kind of girl,I am independent ,make choices on my own.But sometimes I am too determinate,don't listen someone esle's idea,that's not good




















