Have you ever cheated on your spouse?

I cheated on my ex-husband but only if you count that he lied to me about being divorced as cheating. He was overseas in the military and sent me divorce papers. I signed them and mailed them back to him. He was sleeping with every little Korean girl who cut his hair and I wasn't about to waste my life away waiting for a man who couldn't be faithful so I started seeing someone else. My husband was supposed to get stationed in another state then the one I lived in after his tour overseas but he showed up in my bedroom one night to "surprise" me. Luck for him he wasn't surprised by my then boyfriend spending the night. He said his duty station got changed last minute and he got stationed back where he started from and that he wanted us to be room mates because he didn't want to move back into the barracks. I was fine with this. I continued seeing the guy I was with. He constantly brought new women home that would end up leaving him shortly after finding out he was living with his "ex-wife" On what would have been our 2 year anniversary he "surprised" me again by telling me the divorce papers I signed were bogus. They belonged to a guy in his company who really did get divorced and all he did was white out the names photocopy them and send them to me to see if I would really leave him so easily. That man was warped. If I could go back and change ANYTHING it would have been marrying him in the first place.

No I have no cheated on my spouse. Nor would I ever. It's a horrible thing to do, I think people who do it need a smack back into reality. Cheating causes lots of problems for everyone, a lot of emotional distress, distrust, STD's, and sometimes unwanted pregnancies. It disgusts me when I hear about people cheating on their significant other. Esentially they are saying that their spouse is not good enough for them and they have to find whatever it is elsewhere. If that was the case don't get married, it's not worth your trouble. People need a lesson in hard work, commitment and love. Not temporary fixes and emotional highs.

Yes and it was a huge mistake I wish i hadn't It's never really worth it. not only did I loose him but I ended up with the [url="http://yourstdhelp.com/herpes.html"]std herpes[/url].

yes, i currently am because he cheated on me first 4years ago and i am afraid i can't stop. also, i cheat now to stay ahead of him, because i feel like he still is or wants to. i just dont want to be heart broken like i was before, so i want get too attached if i have something on the side. i dont love these men its just something to do, because my husband don't think i am vengeful.