Cheaters..should you give them heads up?!
By angieang
@angieang (262)
United States
March 14, 2008 4:48pm CST
Cheating is something EVERYONE is familiar with..if not through personal experience they have atleast seen it on television, or heard about a friends mishaps. I witnessed a wife write with shoe polish on her cheating husbands car windows about it. She kept it clean with simple words such as liar, and deceitfull. Do you believe she was wrong for doing what she did? Should I have told the husband?
3 responses
@axle_shockhits (460)
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14 Mar 08
is it as bad as what the husband did? i doubt it! a broken heart is a painful thing!
@axle_shockhits (460)
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14 Mar 08
no. i think the husband gets what is coming to him. if there was no reason behind the senseless act i would tell him.
@my_january (967)
• Philippines
15 Mar 08
Since I was not emotionally involved with the situation she is going through, it is easy for me to say that I don't like what she did. It could have been more proper if she face her husband and talk with him about it- its just like dealing with the things we really don't want to deal with-is better if we want to get over with it, rather than acting like the wife did. Maybe she just wants to vent out the pain in her heart with regard to the situation she is in, so on the other hand I really can't blame her. Your asking if you will tell the husband? I don't think so, there are things which is better left untouched.
@angieang (262)
• United States
17 Mar 08
Well the thing is, is that she did face and talk to her husband about it before she commited the act. It was his show of no remorse that put her to that extreme. I didn't want to tell him, but my bosses told me since I witnessed it that I should. But I left it simple enough to say if I were you I would go look at my car. Didn't get into ANY details...didn't feel it was right.
@angemac23 (2003)
• Canada
14 Mar 08
He's jsut lucky she didnt do worse!!! I would have done worse than that to him! No one deserve to be cheated on and no one had a right to cheat....if you dont love the person you are with, you should just tell them and leave, that way at least it is a clean break....cheating causes too many problems and leaves people hurt....The husband could possible be making his wife sick by sleeping with someone else too because there are so many diseases out there that he could have caught from the other woman and than brings it home to his wife....no one has a right to put my haelth and well-being in danger...if someone cheated on me, I would do far worse than write on his car!!
