Does your dog practice it's parental instincts on it's toys?

@jenni7202 (1598)
United States
March 14, 2008 4:59pm CST
I have a non-fixed 3 year old Pit Bull. She has always been a real lovable animal and loves to play with her toys. A couple months ago I noticed that she was taking her toys wherever she went, including to bed with us. She would sit with them close by her, cleaning them and no allowing people near them unless she personally trusted them. I've been wondering if I should breed her or not, as she seems to want to take care of babies. I'm also thinking about getting her spayed, but not sure if that is the way to go. I don't want to take something away from her that she clearly wants, but then again I don't want to bring puppies into this world while knowing that there are plenty that don't have homes and that die everday. What would you do in this case?
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@Ldyjarhead (10233)
• United States
14 Mar 08
The dog is following natural instincts, she does not 'want' to have babies to take care of. An animal is not capable of making that decision. A dog will mate and produce offspring whether they have homes or not, whether there is food available or not, whether they are out in the street or not. Spaying her will not 'take something away from her'. When you took her into your home, you took on the responsibility for caring for her and for making the decisions best for her welfare. Allowing her to have pups just for the sake of having pups is not a good decision. I say spay the girl.
@jenni7202 (1598)
• United States
14 Mar 08
I don't just want to let her have pups for the 'sake of having them', as you say. I would also like to have a puppy of hers, as I know she will not last forever and she's the only animal that I have become so close to. My cousin also has a pit bull, who is a male, that he would like to breed due to him becoming to old and he wants a puppy from him as well. Our 2 dogs look almost identical, except his is pure and mine is not. The puppies would be within good homes, as we wouldn't allow them to go outside of the family. I would never bring puppies into this world just for the 'sake of having them.' To me my animals are my family and I have full intentions of taking care of them the way they should be.
14 Mar 08
Our mongrel went through a phase like this for a while. She had a few phantom pregnancies and took to caring for everything that had her scent on it as if it were a puppy. She proved real trouble with our Shi-Tzu. They fought like something terrible as the Shi-Tzu was always very protective of 'her' toys (she'll sit on them to stop any other dogs getting them) and the mongrel kept stealing them and putting them in her basket. It also caused trouble with the poor dogs my mom fosters (often damaged little things from abusive homes and puppy farms). They were often skittish anyway :( But she grew out of it. She was around the same age as your pitbull (and probably about the same size). Hopefully she'll get over it too. Give it a few months and see if the behaviour fades at all. I understand your dilemma, especially as getting her 'done' could be dangerous. Good luck, hopefully she'll get over it soon.
@jenni7202 (1598)
• United States
14 Mar 08
I hope so. She starts up with it every once in awhile. It's been going on and off for about 2 years now. I'm really starting to think I want her to get it out of her system by really having pups. I feel bad for her because she seems like she would be a great mother. She just got over her 'mommy moment' a couple days ago, and her toys are her toys once again. It is strange though, because during her 'mommy moment', you tell her to go get her babies and she does. When she's over it, they are just toys again, and when you call them babies she has no idea what your talking about. She's just a strange dog I suppose. And as for her size, she is a small pit bull, weighing at only 45lbs. She is a mix, but she looks pure bred and she's absolutly beautiful. I'm sure she would make beautiful puppies.
• United States
15 Mar 08
45 lb is not small for a pit. Before people started crossing larger dogs into the bloodlines, pitbulls were a medium sized dog, not these hulking 75 lb dogs. That happened in just the past 20 years or so. And being a mixed breed dog, your really do NOT know what is in the medical past of her parents and grandparents, etc, most likely to be able to say nothing would be passed down to her pups that you wouldn't want to deliberately give them. Also, YOU are the one who called her toys her "babies" and she learned that word. By telling her to get her babies, she is not exercising her mother instinct, she is fulfilling your request. Dogs are smart and often intuitive, but you are projecting on her.
@jenni7202 (1598)
• United States
15 Mar 08
I do know her parents and where they came from. They were both my cousins dogs and well cared for and she still has them to this day. She even knows where they came from! Her parents and grandparents are very healthy dogs, and very loving on top of that.
• United States
2 Apr 08
In all honesty, I feel as though you should allow her to have at least one litter. That is, if she is well mannered and she has a good temperament.
• Philippines
15 Mar 08
My dog is only a year old, so I'm wondering if she would go through the same thing, too. For the past few months she has been ignoring her toys until recently, she started to take it with her again, but not like what your dog does.
• United States
15 Mar 08
It is not a "mother" instinct. It is a resource guarding instinct. A dog or cat will sometimes carry its "catch" around with them. They are protecting their resources. It is the same situation as when a dog growls at a person coming near them when they have a bone or a bowl of food. If she wasn't doing it with a toy but with a bone, you would probably see it as a negative behavior rather than "mothering". She is saying "MINE!", not "i have really been thinking about the idea of motherhood. It might be a good idea to keep a close eye on this and be firm on her not expanding her idea on what "MINE" happens to be. (boy dogs do exactly what she is doing too.) I urge you to consider getting her spayed for the following reasons: 1) It will greatly decrease her risk of ovarian cancer, uterine cancer, and pyometria. It may not seem to be a threat now, but as she gets older, it definitely is a risk. 2) It will reduce the risk of attracting other, unwanted dogs to your yard when she is in heat. And keeping her inside doesn't solve it, they will still come. 3) If you are wanting to breed her just so she may or may not carry out her maternal instincts - what will you do with the pups? How can you insure without a doubt that you will be able to thoroughly check out the families that get them. Go beyond "they seem like nice people" and really find them good homes. Remember, there are lots of "nice people" that make terrible dog owners. 4) Do you really know what her parents, and grandparents were like? Do you know without a doubt their strengths and weaknesses, as you would not want to deliberately pass down tendencies for illnesses, weakness of the hips, short lifespans or non optimum temperments. 5) Will you spay the puppies before they go home (they can be spayed as early as 8 weeks) to ward off anyone looking for a breeding prospect? Or up to no good? 6) Now - let's be honest here...Are you aware that only 1 in 12 dogs ever finds a permanent home, and the statistic is 1 in 52 or 56 for a pitbull. Can you breed your dog knowing that if something should happen and one of her puppies should get loose - even if its several years after they are taken by another family, that many shelters will put down a pitbull immediately upon admission no matter if they are the sweetest dog ever? And for the shelters that do return them to their owner, or put them up for adoption, that getting adopted from a shelter is slim because there are just so many at the pounds? Please strongly consider spaying her. I know I may come across as pretty opinionated, but its a weekly heartbreak working with shelter pups who don't get out.
@jenni7202 (1598)
• United States
15 Mar 08
Obviously you did not read my above posts to others who asked what I would do with the puppies. The puppies would not leave my family, and I have a huge family. Many of them are wanting a puppy from my dog, and I haven't even come to the discission to actually breed her. I am fully aware of ovarian cancer and all of the other effects of not spaying my dog, I was a veterinary assistant for a good deal of time and I just haven't had the time or money to get her fixed yet. I just can't get her fixed first without first deciding if I want her to have one litter of pups. I know about pups not getting homes, and what not due to shelters and the fact that many don't want a pit bull. That is one of the reasons that if she is to have pups the only people that I would even consider are my own family members, as my whole family loves pit bulls and has them for their own. All the pit bulls in my family are greatly loved like family members, and we would never put them in a situation where they might not have a loving family and a wonderful life.
@maliki2 (255)
• United States
5 May 08
Doesn't actually mean shes practicing parental instincts. I think most of which you posted above is typical doggy traits. My dog is a male four year old Sheltie and he does it, and so does our female golden. If you don't think it neccessary to breed then don't!
• Philippines
15 Mar 08
That sounds real cute. I haven't seen a pet enjoy his toy so much. Maybe he's not yet ready for breeding if he's that young and still enjoys playing..but who knows..Anyways, you do what you think would be best. My sister breeds her dogs when they are a bit older than 3.
@gemini_rose (16264)
15 Mar 08
My dog used to do this to, and the vet told me that she was having a phantom pregnancy, he said that letting her breed would help to solve this problem, but I could not really let her breed as I was not in a position to have a dog that had puppies and all the things that go with it. He said that spaying her would also stop the phantom pregnancies, but ideally its a good idea to let the dog have a litter before speying because they become gentle in nature then when they have been a mum first. But I opted to have her speyed anyway and she never had the phantom pregnancies again and she was even more of a softie afterwards!
@nova1945 (1612)
• United States
15 Mar 08
I don't know about a dog, but I had a cat that used to take the other cat's babies and try to be their mom. She even nursed them. And she never had a litter of her own because we had her spayed early. She raised a lot of babies in her long life. She did lose interest when she got old, but it was amazing to watch her take all those kids under her wing.