step mother younger then you

United States
March 16, 2008 3:19pm CST
hello, my ex and i seperated about 8 mothns ago and he is going to marry a woman younger then me she is 21. iam 28 she has 2 children and one on the way, saying its his, how ever i have 3 children and they are all his, he lives and onother state and has had barly any contact wit h his children but is claming her children as his own, what wrong here, not only that he insest that the children come to his place in tn, i want to know why iam so angry about all of this and why she would even think about claming my children as her own. oe why he would clam children that are not his help
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• Bahamas
17 Mar 08
I can understand your feeling this way. as mothers we're very possesive with our kids... {how dare another woman claim ownership.}lol. hey look on the bright side she may turn out to be a good person. your ex sounds like a jerk. who knows what he's thinking. you maybe angry that the jerk is moving on to another family, and not being there for the one he's got already. can't say i blame you for being angry.
@LadyDulce (830)
• United States
16 Mar 08
Calm down... It probably hurts so much because it was only 8 months ago. Your kids will always be your kids, no one can change that. I grew up with a stepdad and a few stepmoms, so I know this to be true. I have several stepchildren of my own, and my son has a half-brother from his dad as well. Again, I am much younger than my husband's previous wives, which has caused a bit of friction with his family, but as long as you're secure in your standing with your kids, you'll be alright. Blessed Be
• United States
16 Mar 08
All I have to say is men are scumbags and think that they can do whatever they want. I know how you feel and its because your mother and you just want the best for your children. Keep your head up and good things will come to you and your children.