Boy Friend or Boyfriend?

Thanks for your reply. I guess once you have been burned, it messes it up for everyone else. Im just curious to know how many of those relationships have crossed the line.

I'm sure there have been many that have crossed the lines. But for me none have crossed the lines unless he and I wanted them to to give it a shot.

thanks for your reply. Nice to know Im not alone. I thought I was the norm. I still think we are!

Now thats being too selfish on your part.. You want your boyfriend to be only yours and should forget his relationships with others. So if he is your boyfriend he cannot be friendly to other girls.. Moreover if he becomes your husband then he should leave his family too.. Thats too much to demand for.. Oh by the way i don't decide based on my past experiences..Infact i want to forget away my past experiences and have new experiences in life.. Anyway .. best of luck for ur partner

I think you look into new relationships based on past experiences. You are supposed to learn and grow from past issues. I just don't want my man venting to another woman and talking about me while she strokes his ego to make him feel better. That is my job and that is what is going to bring us closer. If you take away that piece of the relationship, I beleive it weakens it. The same reason a man needs to leave his mom to have a great relationship with his wife, he needs to leave other women too. And how much greater is his bond with his mom?

Im not gonna lie, men and women cannot be friends and thats it. Its too complicated. Like in the past, Ive had many girl friends that told me Im their "brother" or whatever, but further down in our "sibling" relationship, I found out that was just a ploy to get closer to me. I'd say, if the friend was homosexual, then it might work. This has happen to me, where I befriended a couple girls that were gay and nothing happened until....... I made a move!!! LOL!! I don't see a guys and girls ever being just friends.

I have been in it for almost 9yrs now and there is nothing wrong with my boyfriend. I remember one day he came home and a new girl at work was trying to get his attention. She's very beautiful and well any guy will fall for her. He walk in he was so mad about it. I asked him what's the matter, why is he acting so mad. At the time I had only my son Alex with me and he was just one year Old. He went to his room and slam the door. Later he came down for dinner and we talk about some funny stuff and I told him about my day, how testing it was. He sign and said he got the worst. When my son was asleep he asked me if I trust him. I was shocked he had to say that. I joked about it, but he look at me and said "I'm serious do you trust me" . I said yep and he said okay there's a number that this woman at work slip in my pocket call her and tell her to leave me alone. I said what? I was shaking, because I did not know what to say to him. He explain how his agent has hire an new office assistant for him and the woman is trying to date him. I asked him do you love her? he just look at me and said ,"hell no what am I doing with woman her age...! this girl is 22 she's after money anyway just do the damn call". He was almost crying, he said he just feel so stupid that this woman will not respect him. I made the call and she was kind of trying to sound romantic after I let him say hello on the phone then I took the phone and said you are talking to his wife she hung up!! The next day I went to my boyfriend's office in his place most of the guys at work are his friends they knew something is wrong and I told them that their boss is not going to be there, because I am representing him for the week. I reminded them they are not to date co-workers and some of the guys already knew what I was talking about. Two weeks later the lady quit the job.

I think the problem comes in when they are labeled "best friend," it was for me anyway.

I agree!