love or be loved

@lily3753 (390)
China
March 16, 2008 8:36pm CST
I wonder a women will marry a man love her or marry a man she love . You will choose who?
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13 responses
@quawertz (780)
• Philippines
19 Mar 08
I want to marry someone who I love and who loves me as well. Because if there is no love in between the the couple then the marriage will not work. But I want the guy will love me more so in that case he will not think of dumping me in the ned, haha...
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• Philippines
17 Mar 08
As a woman, If I'll have a chance to get marry...I will choose someone I love and love me back.
@asgtswife04 (2482)
• United States
17 Mar 08
for me personally, it would have to be a two way thing where i loved him and he loved me. i wouldn't get married just because i loved him or just because he loved me. that is not the right reason to get married. marriage is a very serious thing and if the two of you aren't both in love, then marriage shouldn't even be an option at that point. God bless
@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
17 Mar 08
I agree with Nicholejade. I am in love with a man very much, and he loves me back. We plan on marrying in another year or so. Why would you marry someone who doesn't love you back, or whom you don't love? I don't understand this. You'll be spending the rest of your life with this person, so better make it count!
@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
17 Mar 08
I will only marry a man that I love and that he loves me back. No point having a relationship based on one sided love you are only cheating yourself in the long run. I know there are many relationships like this and I don't agree with it one bit.
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@imlucky (128)
• Qatar
17 Mar 08
i have married a man whom i love and who loves me..it may not even be of the same degree or intensity (meaning his love is stronger than mine but still love is there)..basically, marrying MUST be bound by love from both parties or else marriage life won't even work! besides love is the ingredient that fills our life with magic! did i make sense?? :)
• Philippines
17 Mar 08
I'll marry a man who loves me more than I love him. It was the best advice given by mom. She said that if a man really loves you more than you do, then he'll do anything for you.
@harrish (126)
• India
23 Mar 08
i think girls can accept any kind of love .. so they love if not success love their husband ... and .... so both are rught
• China
23 Mar 08
I will choose the one who loves me... Because I am a girl..
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
23 Mar 08
a man who can listen.
@after80 (110)
• China
20 Mar 08
I love my wife and my wife love me back .I think if you can have choose ,you'd better choose a man you love and love you back . But if there is no choose, I will find a women love me more than I love her .HaHA,what 's your idea?
@moondan (714)
• China
19 Mar 08
If the question be asked 3 years ago ,i will shout wihtout thinking within one second that i will choose love.I don't mind the people which i love whether love me.i will use my full love to love him.I prefer to choose i love him more than he love me. but now i will choose to be loved.I think it is happier.love a person is so tired if he doesn't love me.i have a try but lost.I love the feeling of being doted on.It s more comfortable to be love by on person than to love him.but the precondition is that i also love him but he love me more.i will not fall in love with one person that i don't love him,That will hurt him if i leave him. Love is full of romantic and happy,and with tears.neither to love or to be loved, i will cagy to begin the love.It contains responsibility.
• Philippines
17 Mar 08
The man I love of course, and if the man loves me back, it is perfect.
• Philippines
17 Mar 08
yeah...it must be a two-way relationship. it is useless to marry someone who doesnt love you and someone whom you do not love. your marriage will not work..it could also be a misery.