My son cries if he does not get what he wants

United Arab Emirates
March 20, 2008 5:15am CST
If my son does not get what he wants he cries and i could not take so i provided what he asked for before i hear that f... voice. it becomes a strategy for him to get what he wants. if i am a little late he begins preparing his face for crying. if any one can advise me what to do in situation, I would be appreciated...
3 responses
makelifehappy
@vera5d (4005)
• United States
21 Mar 08
the only thing you can do is not give him what he wants and then ignore the crying. it is terrible and hard to do for the first few weeks but eventually it will get better. good luck!
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goergineo
@goergineo (1498)
• Jordan
22 Mar 08
Try to stand his crying for one day. then i think the problem is solved. you wont hear it for ever
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Modestah
@Modestah (11179)
• United States
20 Mar 08
ah depending upon his age I think this is normal enough - he is testing his boundaries with you. seeing how far he can go before you give in perhaps. Now are the forming years, you will want to be stern in things you do not want him to have or do or else he will learn to take advantage of you his whole life and you will get in a vicious cycle that will be hard to break later on. a pouting demanding teenager will not be a pretty sight!
dementiev
@dementiev (97)
• China
20 Mar 08
Yeah,,he is just a child,,and he doesnt know what he have done is right or not,he only know he can get what he wants in this way...You know that this is really a bad habit for a child,if you indulge your son too much,i am afraid he will get into some bad habits,such as possessive instinct.You are his father,so you just stop indulging him.Only in this way can you kick your child's bad habit..