how would you describe your wedding day?

@skbh12 (2950)
Philippines
March 21, 2008 4:48am CST
well, i would like it to be something extravagant where all my relatives and dearest friends, my husbands as well be there. i would like it to be something extraordinary.. as of the moment i havent thought of the motiffs, set up and where would my wedding be held... how about you? would it be a church wedding, or a garden wedding? or would it be something unique that no one has ever thought of doing it yet???
9 responses
@tessah (6621)
• United States
22 Mar 08
i had the "dream traditional" wedding. pretty garden, lots of flowers, georgeous dress, tuxes, horses & carriage, etc etc. and everything went wrong.. including the marriage LOL the set-up wasnt what *I* wanted, but that of someone else, and it was a completely horrible day. second time around i had everything i wanted. held in a park at the site of an old gris mill with waterfalls and rivers and flowering trees, absolutely beautiful surroundings and atmosphere. kept simple and unpretentious n every aspect imagineable, i didnt even bother with make-up or shoes for that matter, and walked barefoot through the grass in a flowy off-the-rack dress with flowers in my hair and married the man of my dreams, who i still love all consumingly ( 9 years next week ) the recption as well was kept simplistic and laid back, and everyone there enjoyed themselves so much, including us, that the cut of time of merriment of 6pm extended until well past nine, and people only started thinking about leaving after it started to downpour. a truly perfect day and everything i ever dreamed of.
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
22 Mar 08
wow.. ive never known anyone like you would ever think of spending their wedding ceremony in an earthly manner surrounded by water, trees and grass that are so flowy without bothering walking barefooted. what a great wedding you had.. it is very unique and i love your set up.. nice. can you be my wedding planner? lol.. you are good with this..
@tessah (6621)
• United States
22 Mar 08
honestly? id LOVE to LOL i love planning parties and such and have a wonderful time doing it lol just added point.. the big to-do wedding i had the first time we had the cake made by a "professional" and it suxxored and actually leaned like the tower of pisa, not to mention it tasted like sawdust with sugar on it. second time around i made the cake myself ( wish i could figger out how to load pics into messages ) three teir w/ white frosting, purple and green vines, daisies, with three dragons supporting a crystal ball as the top. not only was it georgeous to look at.. i had to gaff the top so it wouldnt be all gone at the end of the day because it was devoured! lol
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
22 Mar 08
wow.. you bake towered cakes?? thats so cool! ive been wanting to make my own but i just dont have the complete set like mixer and anything else to make a great cake.. so all i do is bake cakes that are ready to cook..
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
21 Mar 08
hi..my dream wedding is a garden wedding but different culture,tradition,,thats why i cant do my true wedding but im happy..at least i get married to one guy and wear white dress for 3 times..as of now im helping 3 couples for there wedding and my favorite motif is pushia pink and maroon..i think you can choose what you want..for a wedding but if your catholic its best that you marry in the chruch.that was the tradition..right?..goodluck
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
21 Mar 08
oh im not a catholic myself so i guess it would be better if my wedding would not be held in a church. im not saying it is a boring place to spend my wedding but maybe i wanted it to be more extraordinary and unique..
25 May 12
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@busta1baby (1230)
• United States
30 Apr 08
I WANT IT TO BE ON A BEACH AT SUNSET....NOT A BIG WEDDING JUST CLOSE FRIENDS AND FAMILY
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
5 May 08
yeah..it is better to celebrate a very memorable event with people close to your heart right..
@Dest274 (100)
• United States
23 Mar 08
that comment that man made was funny but..... me see i want a wedding like at a big church with alot of guest and smiles and my dress to be like a shimmering color you got to see it... or in front of a judge just me in him
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
24 Mar 08
oh.. so you are into traditional wedding too hmm.. hehe.
• United States
23 Mar 08
we had a biker wedding in our front yard. It was great. The preacher was a biker and everyone parked their bikes out front. In fact, our alter was a chopper my husband had built!! We had a really great time.
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
24 Mar 08
wow.. what a unique way to celebrate a wedding. thats cool..
@Ren1227 (104)
• United States
22 Mar 08
My wedding day was one of the happiest days of my life. I married a really good friend of mine who I can honestly say is now by best friend. We had a church wedding (we are both Christian) and invited a lot of friends and relatives. It was somewhat of a big wedding and a pretty traditional ceremony. We then had our banquet at a nice restaurant nearby and we enjoyed it a lot. My wife wasn't one of those people who had an idea of her 'perfect' wedding but now thinks there are some things she would have liked to change. The main thing she regrets a little is that it was not very unique. As I mentioned, it was more traditional and somewhat similar to many other weddings we had been attending the past year or two before we got married. When you do get married and have your wedding I would encourage you to take time to make it unique and (within reason) include everything you want as this will be one of the most important days of your life.
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
22 Mar 08
yeah. ive been thinking of unique ways on my future wedding but as of the moment, i havent thought of anything cool yet like places where it should be held, motiffs and all.. haha.. i find it too soon to think about it yet. but of course i would like something new!!
@jsharriz (436)
• Ukraine
21 Mar 08
i wud opt for smethin simple but one that wud remain as happy moments in peoples memories... smethin jus next door kind yet unique .. cos its once in a life experience...i want to make it special both for my wife n my family n friends.
@williamjisir (22884)
• China
21 Mar 08
Hello dear slbh12. I did not go to the church to have my wedding day, but a very ordinary but traditional one like many people did or do. I think that it is very interesting to have the wedding day in the church as we could be blessed by the priest. Thanks for your discussion, dear skbh.
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
21 Mar 08
hi dear williamjisir.. yes you are right.. it more nicer if you would be blessed by God inside his own home, the church..
@doroffee (4226)
• Hungary
25 May 12
It would be a smaller, but not too small, elegant but cozy, friendly, moving and not stuck-up, snobbish and stiff. As I'm not religious, I don't think I would have a church wedding. Otherwise, I've had lots of different ideas for decoration and stuff, so...