helping a friend for a fight it is sign of bad attitude?
By marketing07
@marketing07 (6266)
South Korea
March 21, 2008 9:10am CST
im very upset today to see my sons face..yesterday he went home with scratches on his face he said he fall down when he was playing soccer..but today i was shocked to see his face again..so many bruises and scratches,he said there school leader bit his classmates and his classmate is too small..so he help his classmates because he was pity him..do you think it a sign of bad habit or what? what do you think.
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6 responses
@getunaddicted (210)
• United States
22 Mar 08
I was much like your son when I was younger, and I am still like that to a degee, but normally I tend to try not to actually fight unless I am left with no choice. I do not think it is a bad habit, but it does have to be monitored so that he can learn that there are other ways of defusing the situation other than being physical.
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
21 Mar 08
I think I would difinitely have a closer look into what is going on at school, if I were you. A school leader biting children?? Someone needs to be notified.
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@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
21 Mar 08
your son's intention is heroic, in his young mind he had seen the poor situation of his classmate being bullied by other kids and in his own way he wanted to do something to help that kid. his courage is admirable and i have to say fascinating, he shows bravery and strength to fight.
i don't think he is being bad or what however he should know that fighting is not always good, no matter how good his intention was he might get into a bigger trouble with what he did. those bully might get back at your son one day when he least expected it.
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
22 Mar 08
yes,,youre right .thats why im so scared that someday he will end up like that ..thanks for sharing
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
21 Mar 08
Hello dear marketing friend. They are kids only. So it shows that your son has the sense of justice of helping his friend, small friend. You know, even a small kid like your son knows that he is supposed to help the weak. Good for him, but still we need to teach him that it is a good way or solution to help his classmate that way. A better one is to teach him how to persuade them not to fight against each other. I am sure that your son will be a great hero some day. 
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
22 Mar 08
thanks william,..im trying to tell him the good and bad about fighting..1 person likes this
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
22 Mar 08
yes,,ive already call the teacher ..thanks crysi
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Feb 10
hi marketing07 No its not a sign of bad habit but he needs to know to go to a teacher and get adult help in a situation like this. He is a brave smart little kid to want to help a weaker child, but the teacher
has to help out in these situations. the school leader sounds like a bully and your kid's teacher and professor must be made aware of this leader who is bullying younger children. they must put a stop to his
behavior.No your son sounds like a really good little boy to me.
