according to a research, a guy who is shorter have more tendency to be jealous.

thanks for sharing your points and opinions, i really appreciate it. after you said 'JEALOUSY IS NATURAL FOR LOVE PART' then i question my lesson back then and even some books that i have read stating that jealousy should never be part of LOVE itself, coz who ever have TRUE and REAL love in their heart, they will never doubt nor question nor wonder nor feel insecure about their love. they will just be happy that they have it and let it grow to the person they love. also, i believe that jealousy is natural coz all of us do feel it, but most part it is just a NATURAL EMOTION nothing to do with love (imho) the only reason we think it is part of love because we often feel it with our partner but hey you feel jealous with your brother, sister, a friend a teacher and so on and so forth. so would that mean it is LOVE too? dont you think it has something to do with the insecurities or not feeling that someone is not giving you enough attention? regarding your question of, if your bf is tall "does he loves you?" i feel it is very shallow to say that if your bf is always jealous then he is so in love with you or if he dont feel jealous then he is not in love with you. we cant measure love by the way our partner illustrates their jealousy. im not sure about your age or if you ever been really in love. but if you will ask those happy people out there they will tell you that the secret of their relationship is trust and complete understanding of their partner. love grows only if you let that person really grow and not push them to feel the way you want them to feel. yes, jealousy is every one's right but have you consider thinking about the EFFECT of it, most of its effects falls on negativity and it will be worst if you makes it take over you all the time. NO ONE will like nor enjoy that they are being nagged all the time by their partner just because they are jealous over something or somebody. i have to disagree with your statement that without jealousy itself, i will doubt my partner's intention coz if this is the case then i can honestly say that i have made the wrong choice of finding such love coz if that partner of mine really love me then he will let me be me and not question everything i do or feel. most people who are jealous always question or wonder and often they dont believe and or hesitant of the truthfulness of their partners words to them. NOW that is the real doubt and not really the LOVE you are looking for or wanting to have for the rest of your life. btw,NO, i am not saying your belief or opinion is wrong, we all have our own and i do respect it, i am just giving my own and hope you respect it the way i do with you. i give my views hoping to share it with you and hope to understand why you believe in such a way. i hope you dont get my response in a negative manner, i am just trying to understand. thanks for giving me your side appreciate it and hope to hear from you again. takecare

Every opinion has its good and weak point, don't worry I never give negative feedback on any opinions. I just take the pressure on the short and tall perspectives. Because, in my life I found some short guys are much better than tall guys, and it's contradiction to what those survey result. My "Jealousy" version, I can deal with.. and I have my own reason and expected that from my spouse.

hi, thanks for understanding and dont see it negatively and still giving your side bout it. i have to agree that it varies in every situation or experiences that we have in our life. i have never dated a guy who is shorter than me so i cannot commend on your statement that you found shorter guy better than a tall one. my 1st bf is very jealous and it just really kills me knowing i have to get the approval of everything i do and say and even think. i just cant imagine living my life like that forever. anyway, such relationship didnt work and gladly i have never found someone who is jealous anymore coz i hate breaking someone's heart just because they are like that. anyway, good for you! i am happy to know that you and your spouse have understanding and acceptance when it comes to jealousy issues, it is very rare that i have spoke with someone who have understanding like that and i commend that you guys handle it that well (i have known couples who get separated or divorced after years of nagging coz the jealousy becomes over board) i wish you happiness and success and again thanks for the respond takecare

very good points. i do believe that our history shows that this do really happens and yes, most shorter guys try their best to do some other stuff that will make them shine despite their shortness. i for one dont look for height but look for what kind of person my partner is, but this is beyond the point coz we are talking about guys and not girls, haha! i agree that we should respect others despite their heights coz we cant measure some one because of height itself, there are so many reasons out there that makes a man not just their height. anyway, thanks for the post appreciate it. takecare

hahaha thanks for the laugh! now i cant help but wonder why on earth you say that! hahaha anyway, thanks for participating and lighting it up! appreciate it! takecare!