Ship the kids out.....Its private time
By tjades
@tjades (3590)
Jamaica
March 22, 2008 11:06pm CST
Again I'll reiterate that I am not married but I spend a lot of time thinking of what that life will be like. (Im of age you know)SMILE
Anyways one thing that I give some thought to is how restricted hubby and I would have to be when the kids are around. I love to tease and find escape routes if you know what I mean.
I have it all worked out in my head. Everyone needs a holiday right. Well there are going to be times when I'll ship the kids off to family or close friends so that hubby and I can have the house all to our selves. I've heard many tales about those walk-in-on-mom-and-dad experiences. I wouldnt have a problem having my friends children over when they want their alone time either. As a matter of fact I think I'll start advocating for it from now.
Great idea dont you think? Yipeeeeeeee
2 responses
@tessah (6617)
• United States
23 Mar 08
im with sedel on this one LOL you get all sorts of offers for babysitting when the baby first arrivss.. but you are actually asking around, everyone is busy rofl unfortunately, the only person id actually trust with my kid, lives in missouri ( im in massachusets ) she will be 8 soon, and our "alone time" has always been in the wee hours of the morning when shes fast asleep.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
23 Mar 08
LOL You are funny 
THe alone time moment tend to happen when they happen. I can't even imagine what it would be like to have to schedule things out. My hubby and I are really touch feely people, regardless if my son is around. If we want private time we take it. That may be selfish but my son is 9, he can do for himself while we are preoccupied. Heck, we have gone in our bedroom to do the deed and he has been so into his video game that he hasn't noticed we were missing LOL
THe alone time moment tend to happen when they happen. I can't even imagine what it would be like to have to schedule things out. My hubby and I are really touch feely people, regardless if my son is around. If we want private time we take it. That may be selfish but my son is 9, he can do for himself while we are preoccupied. Heck, we have gone in our bedroom to do the deed and he has been so into his video game that he hasn't noticed we were missing LOL@tjades (3590)
• Jamaica
24 Mar 08
I hear you Sedel. But if my nephew was in your sons place you would be having a third party visiting the scene of the act. He is enthused about his toys but nothing except friends and being able to run around playing keeps him out of your hair for long. He for one is a reason for my coming up with that idea plus the fac t that I think I will want to be able to dress (or not) a certain way around the house when hubby and I are alone. Thumbs up to you and hubby.
