I already know, you don't have to tell me.
By kbourgerie
@kbourgerie (8780)
United States
March 23, 2008 3:05pm CST
Have you ever been in a relationship where you are so close, that literally you can read one another's minds? Sometimes you know what the other person is going to say before they say it? Or sometimes if something happens to them good or bad, you know immediately in your gut? I know myself I have been in relationships where this occurred and even in family relationships have known the moment when someone passed away. I've had a dream or a premonition and knew without fail that something had happened prior to being told. Have you experienced this with your significant other or other family members?
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@jeanniemay (1798)
• Philippines
26 Mar 08
Whoa! Premonition? Oh, I haven't had those. That's pretty scary, how did you handle it? Did you tell a family member? I just have a close relationship with a friend that I know how she reacts in certain situations. I know what she has to say to something else. We seem to read each others brain waves. It's some connection that makes the tie.
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
24 Mar 08
Yes, I often know what hubby is going to say before he says it and there is usually a feeling of some sort when something is happening to him, even when he tries not to worry me and doesn't say anything.
The same thing happens with my mom - and in this case there is no blood relation because she is my adoptive mom - . I don't often know what she is going to say before she says it, but whenever there is something happening, specially if it's worrying her I tend to know. Usually I have a dream with her. A dream where I can feel that something is wrong. I always call when I have those dreams and so far I have always been right. She might be sick, or anxious about something. She might be sad or feeling lonely. But I always get some sort of dream or feeling warning me about it. My mom is on the other side of the ocean, it takes 7 hours to get there from here. But I still feel it.
To a certain extent I also feel this with my daughter, but it's more confusing to understand.I guess the fact that she is a teenager and her mood can change easily, might have something to do with why I feel confused sometimes.
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
24 Mar 08
well not exactly similar but my hubby and me have a strange thing going between us. Whenever something happens to one, the same will happen to the other too. I mean he sprained an ankle one day, I sprain my left thumb a few days later. I suffer from an eye problem and he is sure to have the same, I have a pimple somewhere (my monthly reasons) and out comes another on his face. I have gas so has he, I have a bad shoulder one morning, he will have one later and so on. Its kind of weird you know, like Siamese twins. It maybe that some diseases are infectious and spreads from person to person but it cannot be true for all. It’s a joke for us that when you are buying medicines, get extra as the other will surely need them in max a week’s time.
About reading thoughts, well we are so used to each other now I guess we are kind of habituated to reactions and the entire thought process. So that no longer takes much guessing on anybody’s part.
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
24 Mar 08
I have that with my s/o all the time, to the point that if something happens around us and I know what he's going to say, I'll tell him 'don't even say it' and he just smiles knowing that I knew exactly what he was thinking, and I'm forever telling him to get out of my head, it gets crowded in there lol, he is always saying what I am thinking at a particular moment. I also have known when a family member has passed before I got the phone call or was told. I have also had 'dreams' where a family member I was close too has come to me in my dream with a particular message.
@anetteh (3590)
• Sweden
24 Mar 08
Yes, I had that relationship with my ex husband. Even though we no longer are married, we still are the bests friends. I also have this feeling with my son. But in the end, I am a person who can feel in the air when something are god or bad. I know exactly what you mean. Is it go or is it bad. Well, feeling for the kids are in a god way. Since it is my job as a mother to know without the children not have to say. For your partner, I do not know if that is a god thing. I have not met a new man yet. And I fell as long as my son still live with me suffering from disorder of Attention and hyperactivity I have no time to spend on a new relationship. I fell it will be hard to have that kind of a relationship again with some one els.
@enchantedleppard (1540)
• United States
23 Mar 08
A friend that I've known since I was little is someone I can always understand, even when she doesnt say anything. We say the same things at the same times, we answer questions before asking the question.. Even in my relationship with my boyfriend we have started to say stuff at the same time or do things at the same time. Its weird!
@leloo2 (114)
• Romania
23 Mar 08
this happend to me a lot in the past 2 years with my lover...but only with him
sometimes i stay and thin about the many moments that have been and happend to know what he is going to do or say in the next second and he see me and asks me what am i thinking about
and i don't say nothing (in my mind the answer was :"us") ..just stare and smile ..and after a few seconds he says something like :"about us"
and i memorate that sequence so that i can remeber the next time i do that...and the story goes on and on










