One Bad Thing That You Have Done In Your Life

Sad Face - A sad face indicating a bad thing that you had done before.
@zed_k4 (17624)
Singapore
March 24, 2008 2:37am CST
Hello Folks~ There are surely things that you and me had done in our lives and it could certainly be bad whether in our conscious mind we know or not know. But the end product is definitely a bad thing. So could you recall at least one bad thing in your life that you had done before and really am not proud of it?I would really be looking forward to read some of your answers and perhaps we could share some things together as to how not to repeat the same mistakes again. Have a good one people and thanks in advance for answering my discussion .. Zed;)
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11 responses
@smacksman (6074)
24 Mar 08
Hi Zed and welcome to Mylot. I'm not too sure if you will get a lot of replies to this discussion. I mean, we all have done things we are not proud of but will we 'hang out our dirty washing' for all to see? Maybe not. Ok - I'm brave enough to admit to one bad thing. I lost my temper with my 10 year old son who was being an absolute horror at the time. He wouldn't go to his room so I grabbed him and chucked him onto his bed to stay there. Unfortunatly, he bounced on his bed and smacked into the wall. I felt awful and gave him a big hug.
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@zed_k4 (17624)
• Singapore
25 Mar 08
Hi there smacksman..I suppose you are right ... I think I've asked the wrong type of question, LOL ...anyway thanks a lot for answering .. I will give you a best response since you are brave enough to confess your bad deed at that time ... thks bro ;)
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@shana123 (2096)
• India
2 Oct 08
my grandma - tears rolling down
I dint visit my grandma, my parents and brother all visited her when she was in bed, all lost hope, it thought she will live, just a blind beleif but i never know it is going be her last week of herself on the earth, you know the only human whom i ever loved so much is my grandma, i can say more than my dad or more than my guy, she was the one who dint expect anything from me, but just poured her love and only love, when i was small i dont give her much attention, when i pass to my home through her street from school, she used sit outside her house,when she notices me she calls me by my name "Honeyyyyyyy... how are you?" but this bad stupid foolish child never turns back, my mom complaints me that why dint i respond her by just waving my hand to her, i said i dont like to display affection in the public, my mom told she cried just because i dint reply her .I loved her then too but i dont know why i stopping showing her my love, she cooks me all what i ask, everything in a minute, she is very generous women, she sings well, she knows all handiworks, she is highly talented i can just add, if i bring you to her she treats you as like she treats me, even if you do ill to her, she will forgive you, i never seen such a women in my life, but i dont know why but good people will be taken soon to GOD's feet.I hope she is safe under GOD's feet.I dont know why i love her so much, if she is with me now i can even sacrifice anything for her, but i lost her 5 years back! If i had prayed well for her recovery, she would have come back but i dint do, i have this guilty feeling, it may sound silly but im so guilty of this:(
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@zed_k4 (17624)
• Singapore
2 Oct 08
You know what, I took my time to read your entry here, and if I could have given another BR, it would surely go to you. Thanks shana for sharing this, I truly appreciate it very much. I missed my late grandma as well when I read your entry here. I hope that she's in a better place, seriously. I pray that your late grandma is in a better place too.
@shana123 (2096)
• India
2 Oct 08
amen.. thanks for your prayers.. and am so sorry for a long story actually i poured out all my feelings here .. and thanks for your kind words.. GOD BLESS
@zed_k4 (17624)
• Singapore
2 Oct 08
Thanks for your kind words, hon.
• Australia
23 Apr 08
I would say we have all done things we are not proud of... we're human after all. For me, the one thing I most regret is something I did while I was in the process of coming to terms with being a homosexual. I was still living in a heterosexual marriage. The marriage had been in trouble for many years but I was staying because of the children. I didn't want to leave my children with the legacy of a broken home like I'd had. Anyway, as is often the case, I wondered whether I was going through a 'phase' that would not last. I felt that I needed to find out for sure. Rather than break up with my husband and disrupt the children I chose what I believed to be the lesser of two evils... I chose to pursue a homosexual encounter while still in the relationship... or, to put it in less gentle terms, I chose to commit adultery. I committed adultery and tried to justify it by saying I was just protecting my children from a broken home. Had it turned out to be a phase I could have left it behind without disrupting my family... bad call! I betrayed God. I betrayed my husband. I betrayed my marital vows. I betrayed my children... and I betrayed myself and my morals. I don't know whether I will ever forgive myself for that... The one thing I do know is that I would NEVER do it again!
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@zed_k4 (17624)
• Singapore
29 Apr 08
Hello there jewel, I'm so sorry to be replying so late. However, I really praise you for your efforts in being able to confront with what you have done wrong. I really think you are brave woman. Never mind your mistakes, for we are not perfect and as a human being, tends to make mistakes as we go along in life. If I could put a best response twice, I would surely put yours as well. Thanks for sharing your experiences with me and the rest and I hope that you are definitely becoming a better person. I'm so sure of that. No worries, hon. Look on the bright side of things and I'm sure you'll get by.
• Australia
30 Apr 08
I really do feel that I am a better person despite my actions. Sometimes I think we need to fall into temptation like that to truly understand how wrong an action is... and then we can learn to never do it again.
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@zed_k4 (17624)
• Singapore
2 May 08
You are absolutely right. I respect your maturity and hope to be as wise as you in future.
@Hastur (101)
23 Apr 08
Hey cute thing: I´ve notice that you post a lot of questions to people but you don´t really share much about yourself. I have done tons of wrong things that i still regret. So, for each one you tell me, I will tell you one. Deal?
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@zed_k4 (17624)
• Singapore
29 Apr 08
Hello Hastur, sorry if you have that kind of impression. . I would surely make it a point to tell more about myself in future in my discussions yeah. Thanks for highlighting that to me. Okay, deal...
@subha12 (18452)
• India
23 Apr 08
i think there i sreally tough situations where i had to take decisions that are bad things. i did th wrong thing by believing in a so called friend. i could not guess he was actually a cheat.
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@zed_k4 (17624)
• Singapore
2 May 08
I'm sorry to hear about that, subha. I hope you have regained your strength back from it.
• Canada
22 Apr 08
3 sins i have committed, howeveer i asked for forgiveness... I cheated, and stole and lied to ppl i love
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@zed_k4 (17624)
• Singapore
23 Apr 08
Don't worry. God is All-Forgiving. I hope your sins will be forgiven.
@seiyuh (162)
• Philippines
22 Apr 08
Oh, we have the same experience with moonastrid. I let him go, never told him I love him.. he's been asking me out a lot but I keep turning him down. I just thought before that he deserve a girl better than me. He's so special, you see, that's why I want the best for him. :D He's now married. *sigh*
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@zed_k4 (17624)
• Singapore
23 Apr 08
The name moonastrid rings a bell. Is he a mylot member, seiyuh?
@robert19ph (4584)
• Philippines
15 Apr 08
For sure I have a lot of thing that I did badly. Even today I still have those bad habits with me. The good thing is I am trying very hard to remove those bad habit. One bad habit of mind is telling a lie. Everytime I did something bad and get caught I tell a lie about it. I felt ashamed about it and I try to be more truthful on what I'm saying or doing.
@zed_k4 (17624)
• Singapore
15 Apr 08
Hi bro, thanks for responding to my discussion. I do have those kinds of bad habits that are hard to kick as well. As long as we are striving on improving, I think we should be doing fine. Thanks and happy posting to you. ;)
@catmint (628)
• Singapore
2 May 08
To err is human? I guess I have done many things I won't be proud of but they are decisions I had to undertake at a given time to save myself or someone. My 2 biggest regrets would be during a job I took a couple of years back. It required me to hire and train over 50 staff in the period of 2 months. The people I had to reject was horrendous because I was competitve and had to make sure the whole thing work. I felt sorry for every one I turned away. Then I made the mistake of giving in to my heart and hiring a couple of underachievers. I knew they will not be able to perform yet I gave in to their begging and pleading. They got themselves into so much trouble that in the end I lost my job too because of them.
@zed_k4 (17624)
• Singapore
3 May 08
I feel really bad for what had happened to you. You shouldn't have gotten fired though.
@catmint (628)
• Singapore
3 May 08
No loss there I got myself a way better job now
@jayalaksmi (1041)
• India
3 May 08
I have also done many bad things but i know i am not bad because whenever i do bad things i feel bad. Well one bad thing i did is I fought with my friend without knowing the real fact on the matter and which i found that i was wrong.
@zed_k4 (17624)
• Singapore
6 May 08
I'm glad that you have faced the truth now. We make mistakes all the time and it's good to confront our mistakes and learn from it. Take care there...
• Philippines
27 May 08
I've been a very bad girl when I was young. I remember trying a wrestling move on my classmate because she stole my stuff. I was in 4th grade then.