maybe i made a mistake

United States
March 26, 2008 6:26pm CST
let me try to explain this in terms that I can understand and then someone else, preferable a woman can explain to me. Alright i have never known true love then again i am from boston and i dont think true love exists and if it hit me on my pumpkin i still would not figure it out but that is just me. Anyhow i started dating a wonderful woman 7 years younger than me im 34 shes 27 no big deal there but a couple of weeks ago we i sent her a text cause i wanted to talk more or less i wanted to break it off and remain friends well she felt the same way i thought this was great nice and easy and gods knows i can always use a friend. Well the next day my roomate which is her best friend told me how bad she felt from it,heck i thought all was well anyhow that night she came up and we got back together because she had never been in a normal relationship. So being in the position i am in i really have nothing to give other that my time. See all my other relationships have been about going here and there about money and what bar you wanna hit on the weekends, now im in something that seems nomal, is it normal not to see one another everyday i dont know cause ive never done that anyhow on pattys day in boston she said she loved me know what i care about her but love what the hell is that should i have said it back i did know i dont really know if she meant it how do ya know should a relationship be about time or tangible items and situations do woman like the simple things like say a nice guy i feel wierd and would like to get a little advice cause i think maybe i love her or maybe i made a mistake by caving in to what she thought was right.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
27 Mar 08
I think she took it otherwise. may be your line of thought and hers are not same at all. you can clearly talk with her in this regard.
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@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
27 Mar 08
Do what u think is right.. If u think its wrong, dun carry on with the mistake... Its pointless to have a relationship whereby noone will gain out of it.. No love but instead hatred might just grow out of it... Well, trust urself, believe in urself... If it wasnt meant to be, it jus wasnt meant to be...
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