How to make myself happy when I am in trouble?

@after80 (110)
China
March 26, 2008 7:10pm CST
Usually I am a happy girl ,but when I was in trouble even just a little trouble I cann't happy . After a long time I can happy .So I wonder how can someboy feel well when he is in trouble?
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9 responses
echosu
@echosu (152)
• Singapore
27 Mar 08
Boy?So the girls do not need to answer? just jocking.I have a good friend,I can lose my temper to him.He do not care.And I am glad to share feeling with him.
jiangsl
@jiangsl (377)
• China
29 Mar 08
I think you are very happy,as you have a good friend who you can lose your temper to him.I don't have that kind of good luck,indeed I have no good friends.Anytime I will deal with troubles by myself,maybe I live my life alone in the world!
echosu
@echosu (152)
• Singapore
29 Mar 08
yes,I think I am very lucky,but sometimes we need solve all of the things by ourselves.
lily3753
@lily3753 (388)
• China
27 Mar 08
Just try to forget it ,and you can listen to the music or do sport .But the most important thing is you must try to deal with your trouble .
peierlin
@peierlin (57)
• China
27 Mar 08
I think every thing has both sides, you can try to see the good side of the thing that happens to you. This will make you feel better. When one is in trouble, the worst thing is that you try to slide over it, then the trouble will follow you even longer. You need to face it, and get yourself out of trouble, if you need help, you can talk to your friends.
jiangsl
@jiangsl (377)
• China
29 Mar 08
You can seek your friends help,or you can tell your parents.They must help you anytime,if don't want to make complaints with them .You can face it by yourself,certainly,time will cure you .Any trouble will past with time fly.You also can tell me if you don't mind.
shafwan
@shafwan (74)
• Malaysia
28 Mar 08
If I were you, I do not think lot about the problem because it could make us headache. When I am in community like with my friends, I act like I don't have problem but when I am alone, I will think the problem and how to solve that. Always be positive, you will fell always better because we can solve what ever problem:)
gouranga76
@gouranga76 (33)
• Hungary
27 Mar 08
Gouranga! If you are in trouble, just accept it as it was orderd by God. I believe in God and my religion is Krishna Conscousness. We beleive that God and his Holy name solves all troubles in life. There is an easy way of beeing happy. Just chant his Holy Names: Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare Hare Ráma Hare Ráma Ráma Ráma Hare Hare Just chant or sing these verse and you'll be Happy. It frees your mind and soul and makes you happy in any situations of life. Just try it! Gouranga! (means: Be Happy! if you say Gouranga, you will also be happy!) yours friendly, Ákos from Hungary
7raphael7
@7raphael7 (12)
• China
31 Mar 08
I think heaven3's answer is very useful.you can think how to solve the problem.your family or your friend all can help you .Please remember sunshine always after wind and rain.
s2a2n2
@s2a2n2 (1732)
• India
27 Mar 08
remember the things u made before which are extraordinary and get encouragement form those...
heaven3
@heaven3 (39)
• Singapore
27 Mar 08
firstly, you should analyse what is the problem, then try to find the solution. people who always keep positive is always believe they can find ways to solve problems, and never give up
peierlin
@peierlin (57)
• China
27 Mar 08
I've put my response in the wrong place, in the comment area of the first person. Maybe you can have a look.