Who cracks first?

March 27, 2008 12:13am CST
For couples or those that are in a relationship, we all know we cannot avoid some quarrel and then some cold or silent treatments that follows through. During those times, who usually breaks the silence?
5 responses
@lucksath (92)
• India
27 Mar 08
Hello nilouette, It is me who always break the silence - because he is little stubborn - but he is more flexible the moment I break the silent. All the best.
@mwala1287 (284)
• Canada
27 Mar 08
yes that is correct, we cannot avoid silent treatments and other similar things. i think that depending on various things that can be answered, but not yet with a direct answer, only indirect. i think that depending on who |started| the arguement and why or why not the issue should be addressed. i think that the things that have happenned throughout ones daily lives can also affect the way one thinks, feels, and acts. i also think that it also varries according to the persons individual personality, that whether their style of living is in the past, present or future. many things must be taken into consideration before answering your question IN MY POINT OF VIEW. I stress that this is simply my point of view, because of course others may or may not agree. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, and that is mine. Enjoy.. =)
@lonely_f16 (2146)
• Philippines
27 Mar 08
The person who feels he/she is sorry for doing his/her mistake. It takes two to tango in a fight so each of us has his/her own mistakes adding up to the fight but the person who acknowledges his/her mistake would really be the one to break the silence otherwise the two of you would hold your pride up and never give in. Forgiveness takes time.
@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
27 Mar 08
i think the person who breaks that ice , usally the person whos always opened to lend advice or the leader in advice inside the relation or always has an answer for everything but still has meaning...i think i would be like that person in a relationship simply because i say whats on my mind and dont hold back
@echosu (152)
• Singapore
27 Mar 08
In my family the first one who break silenceis my father,when i was a child,they quarrel with each other but after a while my father would find some words to talk to my mum. Then the war was finish.