the man who is not drinking and smoking is not a real man?

China
March 27, 2008 1:44pm CST
it's no doubt that everybody know smoking and drinking are harm to our health.but still many people like smoking and drinking. i am a college student and i never smoking and drinking(almost a little if necessary).but once a man hand me a cigarette ,i refuse to smoke,one of my friends said that i am not a real man.it really beat me. so a real man must smoking and drinking?
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CheshireKat
@CheshireKat (564)
• United States
27 Mar 08
Your friend is dumb if he thinks that's what makes a man. I would never be interested in anyone who smoked or drank excessively, and I have quite a few female friends who agree with me. I guess his definition of a real man is someone who's alone and inebriated, with yellow teeth and bad breath. Sounds kind of gross, to me. :P
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rookiekan
@rookiekan (882)
• China
27 Mar 08
i guess she may be kidding with me.but it makes me deep in thinking.thx for your post
zhorak
@zhorak (491)
• Turkey
27 Mar 08
I think drinking and smoking are weaknesses. If someone says that a man MUST drink or smoke, he says this to hide his weakness. He is lying to himself that drinking and smoking is a neccesity for him, because he can't give them up.
rookiekan
@rookiekan (882)
• China
27 Mar 08
yes.it's really hard for a man to give them up although they know it;s harmful to their health.addiction is so powerful
kykidd
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
27 Mar 08
No can do. If you do not want to smoke, then don't start smoking. It is a very addictive habit, and besides that it is very expensive. It's not worth it.
rookiekan
@rookiekan (882)
• China
27 Mar 08
yep,i dont wanna be the man like my uncle who is addicted to smoking.i am lucky i am not yet smoke